I have been married to my wife over 8yrs now (together 9+), and we have been seperated for about 2 months now, and we have two children together. She says she was not happy, and I was to controlling.
I told her I wanted for us to work on things. She says that she needs time apart but she wants the same. However, she has told me that she has been with someone else (she says meaningless, just sex), and this hurts very much.
Am I wrong for being hurt, we are seperated after all. I don't know if I could put this new revelation behind. I feel I will always be competing, and thinking if he was better. I find it very hard to sleep, always seeing her with someone else, and when I finally do pass out, I have nightmares of it.
Should I just let time go by and see what happens? Should I move on now? What?
2007-03-10
23:31:46
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Marriage & Divorce