My husband and I have been married 4 years and have two kids (ages 1 and 3). We have a mortgage, day care costs, and other bills. We both make great incomes (both over $100k per year) but he wants to quit his job, take out a loan and go back to school full time to study music. His dream is to be a musician and a producer and to work in music. He says he is very unhappy with his job, working the 9-5 desk job, and wants to "do music." I have been VERY supportive and want him to be happy BUT I don't understand going back to school to pay like $60k for a degree in music when he probaby won't make much money AND I just think most great producers/musicians don't have degrees, they just do what they do best/love... play music! No degree needed! Anyway, I don't want to end up resenting him but I just feel like he's not being responsible and honesty, just acting like a kid who won't grow up! We all have dreams but guess what ... the creditors don't take dreams as payment... only cash! HELP!!?
2007-02-24
11:48:46
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Falina T. Rayon
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Marriage & Divorce