I have been married before but i think i only did that as i thought that was the thing to do , i realised afterwards that i didnt love the girl as you should love a wife, sex etc.
I am now in a relationship and engaged again after 2 years i love her to death and she would do anything for me but i find the same warning signs are showing their ugly head again, e.g. drinking too much not caring , sex life non existant .
I had a very volatile relationship when i was younger that hurt me very much and am wondering am i just not built for a long term relationship , i keep thinking back an found myself happiest when i was single bu then missed having a proper gf.
I dont want to hurt this girl as she is wonderful but i am gradually making her life a misery and fear that i will end up really hurting heraand i dont know what to do .
Do i really try and sort myself out or just be single .
Oh by the way im 38 have no kids and own my own home and advice would be gratefully recieved.
2007-02-20
19:49:51
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denny m
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