We have been together for 3 yrs. He has a daughter, I love her dearly. His ex-wife hates me and bad mouths me to his daughter. I have tried to get along with his ex, but she is impossible. She even bad mouths my 4-yr old and won't allow the 2 girls to talk on the phone when my fiance calls to talk to his daughter (ex says daughter can talk to my daughter on visitation). She calls my daughter ugly, me fat, ugly, etc, etc. I have never said anything negative about her and have always been friendly and offered to communicate with her (sending emails, pics of her daughter, videos, etc.). She told me to stop. I don't understand why she refuses to be civil and get along for her daughter's best interst. Obviously I can't MAKE her act a certain way. But, is ther any advice on how to get her to see the effects this has on her daughter and try to accept that i am an important part of her life too and we ALL need to get along? (She is remarried & this is considered acceptable)
2007-02-20
16:21:16
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Jennifer S
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Marriage & Divorce