My girlfriend was in the military and grew up with 3 brothers, so she has always had many guy friends. I accepted this and despite knowing some of the guys wanted to be with her, I never showed signs of jealousy or told her to cut her ties.
After a couple of strange comments from guys on her myspace profile, I went into her account and had a look around. There are several messages to male friends of hers and buddies from the army, a couple of ex boyfriends, etc... She sometimes says "hey baby!" A few of them have asked to hang out sometime, and she has agreed. But none of these plans have ever happend.
I trust her and I know she isn't cheating.
But it's really bothering me that she doesn't tell me about it, even when she tells me every other little detail about her life. And I'm always honest with her and about who I talk to.
So why hide it? And how do i approach it, without saying, "hey i snooped around and found out your talking to guys and not telling me!"
2007-02-09
04:48:15
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