I am engaged to a wonderful guy and we're getting married this fall. However, when we first started dating, he had just been dumped by a girl he loved very much bc she wanted another guy and had been cheating. A month and a half into it, he put things on hold for awhile to check and see if he still had feelings for her. I was devastated. She contacted him, wanting to meet and when they did, she proceeded to re-tell him in detail how she cheated on him and they got in a huge argument and that was that. She just wanted to manipulate him. We have been together ever since, over a year now, and we are very happy and I trust him 100%. Recently, the ex felt the need to email me and remind me that I was his "second choice" but that he did love me now. Now it is all I think about, and I feel really crappy bc I really was his second choice. If she had been nice to him when they met, he probably wouldve chosen her over me bc she held his past and he loved her so much. How can I get over this?
2007-01-31
02:06:00
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HayleyD
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