We've been married for almost 5 years. During that time she's found every excuse not to have sex, she has never been interested in doing things together, she has kept all her finances separate and secret from me, and she stopped wearing her ring for about a year. I tried planning vacations together, romantic outings, cooking her dinner every night, and so on. Finally I got so frustrated I told her I was unhappy and that I we weren't working out and it was senseless to stay together. Also, in the meantime I had met a friend that has turned into a romantic relationship.
Now my wife has suddenly turned a 360--she says she's sorry for how she treated me and wants to make things work. I still love her but I'm not in love with her anymore--I care for her and want her to be happy but I don't think we have a future together. She just cries and says she can't understand why I'm not willing to make it work. (She doesn't know about the other person)
Am I a terrible person for giving up?
2007-01-26
15:50:26
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xaow20
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Marriage & Divorce