Why is it fully expected that a man with good manners will always serve the woman by opening her doors, assisting her through doorways, defering to her in all cases ("ladies first"), and otherwise catering to her (including ponying up all the cash for dates),
whereas:
He is criticized as wanting her to be his slave if he expects her to also serve him in any small way (e.g. prepare a meal and bring him a plate)?
If she says she is looking for a man that will treat her as the above, she is told that she should demand that treatement and is deserving.
If a man says that he demands ANYTHING at all from her, he is criticized for wanting a slave.
Why can't he prepare his own food and plate? He can.
Why can't she open her own doors and pay her own way? She can.
What's so bad if they show how they feel by serving each other, though?
Why is it good manners for him to serve her and slavery for her to serve him?
2007-01-21
01:57:51
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Jay
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