Ive been with this guy for six years off and on due to babymama drama and i really love him but the drama has gotten worse and worse every year with her calling my phone and harassing me and leaving evil messages, i have to keep changing my number and that's embarassing. When he is around her he ignores my phone calls like i dont exist saying it is disrespectful to answer the phone around her. Ive done a lot for this guy and been their for him when he was down and dont feel he is treating me like i deserve. It makes me feel like i dont mean nothing to him everytime he gets around her to help her out in situations. And he just wont really come out and tell her look i luv my girl and i dont want you disrespecting her because i help you out when you dont have anyone and im their for my child whenever you call.
2007-01-21 01:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him
2007-01-21 02:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by πρ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, sounds like this lady knows how to get what she wants. Wonder if it is this lady's delusion or if she has had help. Since you said your relationship has been on and off, has he or she given you any inkling that they have gotten back together in those timespans? I just wonder why he is willing to go out on a limb for her, but not for you.
I would not take my son's father back if they paid me. I was overly nice and the type that just wanted everyone to be happy, but at some point you have to start saying no. Well this lady seems to have figured out that he will come running no matter what and she plays on that. I am just curious as to why after six years your boyfriend is "getting played". I know you are invested in this relationship, but are you up for the long haul? As they say things are gonna get worse before they get better.
2007-01-21 02:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by michelle_emu4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If this has been going on for 6 years, I doubt if it's going to get any better. Start getting out there and meeting new people. You'll find there are guys who care enough to show you the respect you deserve and not allow otheres to disrespect you.
I know it's hard when you love someone, but your life will be so much better without all of the added stress.
2007-01-21 02:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing is to live him.thats what i say becuase if he can't relize how special you are and all the things you have done for him then he does'nt deserve to have you.in addition if he can't even tell his other women to stop disrepecting you then thats a another sign that you should leave him. also the biggest HINT would be to leave him if he's with some other women helping her @S$ out but he acts mad funny towards you. or you do have the right and authority to beat dat ho @$s.(im sorry that street state of mind got back into me).i just reread the ending and thats really sad if he cant be their for his child.if he cant be their for his child then sh!t i would try to get some child support. i feel likes its every mans duty to take care of his child.
2007-01-21 02:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by DAMON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be he just wants to spend time with his children. Her behavior sounds childish and uncalled for, she may need prozac. If he was treating you right he would explain to drama queen over there that you are here to stay and she needs to come to terms with it and grow up and instead of wasting her time being a drama queen be a good mother. My advice to you is to dump him and let him run back to the other unhealthy relationship. He seems to have commitment issues, if he likes the drama let him live in it himself and not involve you. You deserve better, drop the zero find yourself a hero. Do not be any mans doormat.
2007-01-21 02:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He's disrespecting you also. If you're supposed to be his significant other than he seems to be showing through his actions with his baby mama that you're not at all significant.
Somtimes you just have know when to let an investment gone bad go.
2007-01-21 02:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by cinattra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like he is not there for you and does not care because HE DOES NOT CARE!!!!! Move on...you deserve more then someone elses sloppy seconds. He is never going to change because he does not want to...he has two ladies pining for his attention, why would he want to?
2007-01-21 02:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Days of our Ghetto. You bees disrespe-in me, I bees dis respe-in you- I bet if you ask these people what respect means, they wouldn't have a clue. And it's baby'S mama, not be bein' da baby mama.
2007-01-21 02:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book..........."Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up their Lives"
Read it.
Own it.
Embrace it.
Keep your legs closed and don't have his kid whatever you do.
2007-01-21 02:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this guy and fast!!!! it's not babymama drama you're dealing with....it's uncaring, selfish boyfriend drama!!! you can do better!!
2007-01-21 02:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by tapple64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf ought to have his employer with the intention to the place YOU dont ought to manage something related to her or the toddler. the themes are between him and the childs mom - no longer u, stay out of it.
2016-10-07 12:07:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋