I have been married for almost 10 years. We have had a rocky marriage (drug use, domestic violence, affairs). Dispite the problems we have worked things out and have moved on. The problem is that he has total control of all of our money (I don't work I take care of the kids and home, he works and has his check direct deposited into his personal bank account). He spends the money as he see's fit weather the bills get paid or not is up to him, weather we have all the personal needs met is up to him. He doesn't pay the bill's and doesn't get all of the things that we need. He refuses to tell me what he does with the money. He run's off all of the time. He has a ton of female friends which he calls, does favor's for, and spends hours at there houses. I don't know what is going on. Should I leave or should I get counciling?
2007-01-21
22:01:23
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Michele B
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Marriage & Divorce