Actually, we're already engaged, and that's why he's taking me for granted. He's hanging out with the guys SO MUCH, knowing that I won't break up with him since I've always tried to be a "cool girlfriend" who supported his "guys" relationships. I've let him blow off countless dates with me, and only recently have I talked to him about it, that I am NOT a doormat for him to walk over, and that we need to set specific times when we can do things together, regardless if "the guys" decide to call him to hang out. Tonight is another night like that-- I have not seen him since lunch-- he is playing with the guys until around midnight, and then we both have to sleep bc we have work tomorrow. I planned with him to let tomorrow be our day/night together but why do I feel guilty? It's almost like I know he's happy and comfortable with the guys- I feel bad for making him be stuck to me tomorrow... But ours is a relationship too, he says, and he wants to build it. What complete BS!! What do I do?
2007-01-16
13:59:09
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reba
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