My husband and I differ on the issue of romance. I think that when people love each other romance should spark by itself. Dancing, wine by candlelight and lots of foreplay should be the standard, atleast in my opinion. My husband who loves me, is romance challenged. Doing these things he feels are unnecessary and awkward to him. I get frustrated because I think he should just "know" or just "feel" what to do but he sits there umoved and unresponsive. I asked him what his idea of romance is and he said spending time together watching TV or just talking about nothing in particular atthe dinner table while our son is sleep. Why is he not comfortable with the "traditional" type of romance? Are all men like this? How can we meet in the middle (plus, who's right??)
2007-01-16
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