The problem is I have only known her for not even a week. Is it possible to be in love with her already? I talk to her on the phone and she is so beautifiul it makes me cry all the time. I get butterflies. What should I do. She wants me to move to New York City with her asap should I? Is this love @ first sight?
2007-01-16 14:01:22 · 9 answers · asked by spidy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take a step back & calm down a little bit about it all....I know it is awesome when you feel you have found "the one" but truth be told, it is more likely that you are just experiencing an intense infatuation with her at the moment [not "love at first sight"].
Just take it slow, & definately DO NOT relocate to be with someone you have only met [unless you want to be irrationally spontaneous & live a life full of drama {which is ok if you do :)}]
2007-01-16 14:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!! STOP!!
You haven't "met" this person at all. A person can tell you anything over the internet and none of it has to be true. This could be a nice girl ...
or a dirty old man. What do you mean what should you do about moving to NYC? You've got to use your head on this one!! You sound awfully young to be going anywhere. Do you still live at home? Have you finished your education? Do your parents know what you're thinking about? Whatever you do, do not move to NYC!!! Do not!! A week isn't long enough to get to know someone even if you see them every day and spend time with them every evening. Getting to really know someone takes time...a lot of time. And you have never seen this person. If this person was REALLY a good person, she would not even think of asking you to move in with her after only a week online. So she's got problems too!!! Stay where you are. Cool it with this girl for awhile. This is full of problems and some of them could get you killed.
2007-01-16 22:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, like girl/girl? lol umm i wouldnt trust unless you know then for like about a few months at least. theres been times ive liked ppl from day 1 but it doesnt really workout because then u find things out u never knew about. If you love her that much, just meet her there i guess for like few days. and just hand as freinds cause if some1 tells u to move after knowing them for a week, then thats weird. haha
2007-01-16 22:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, well my story is sooo simular!!! Go for it!!! In the first day though I fell in love and it was amazing. But hey maby give it a lil longer about the moving thing.
2007-01-16 22:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Simplicity ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first stage is infatuation. it's going to seem like you guys were meant to be together... like it was written in the cosmos. this person is perfect and it's hard to say that s/he even has faults.... you feel like you're walking on air all the time ... this is not reality
don't move.
reality is love. besides love comes later. after infatuation.
2007-01-16 22:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married cpl here we'd like to say that wed like to say give it at least a few months but yes it is very possible that it can be love at 1st sight we did we started talking to in august 06 and started dating in september 06 and got married in december 06
and yes we met offline
2007-01-16 22:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find u a young man to fall in love with.
Adam and Eve,, not Adam and Steve.
2007-01-16 22:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! you gotta be kidding me! a week? no you most definately need to get to know her and visit. moving shouldnt even come into mind yet. thats insane.
2007-01-16 22:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a crush...wait a little bit..talk to her more and get to know her. one week is not adaqute time to seek true love
2007-01-16 22:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by punkontheinside04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋