I am recently engaged. (This past year) I have cut out any friends that threatened my current relationship. I live in a tiny town where everyone knows most everyone. A girlfriend sided with his X-fiance and said only mean things about my BF to me (she didn't even know my BF)- I cut her out of my life because her negativity was caustic and threatened my relationship. His X fiance was jealous of me-- giving me death wish looks in public. I thought he should cut her out because she was hateful to me, as was my friend to him. BF did- then demanded that I cut out my X BF who has never acted inapropriatly, I was never in-love with- nor engaged too, who I still have a platonic relationship with. Fiance is jealous because X has seen me naked- Even though he trusts me, he cant stand X spending any time with me on the phone or in public. He says if it hurts him for any reason- I should give up my X. I feel he is being CONTROLING because it isn't about me or any real threat to our relationship.
2007-01-15
03:14:55
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