ok, i really like this guy. i think he likes me cause he's always doing stuf to me that he doesn't do to anybody else.
i'm like the only girl that he ever invites to his house that's his own age.
this weekend, we were at the same hotel and he avoided me all weekend!!!:(((
i could've found out who he likes twice, but i didn't.
how do i find out if he likes me without being too obvious??
2007-01-15 03:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by plazndrt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are very open i suggest just asking him he'll probably tell you even if it is you and another thing guys like obvious we dont like screwing around with little games it's better to just be open and up front with your feelings it'll help both of you and there wont be all the awkardness that i'm sure is there now
2007-01-15 03:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had many of these issues with girls "back then" (and I'm a guy).
there are all kinds of men out there. The fake, the kind, the humorous some with combinations...etc. Same thing with girls.
If he's lonely then that might mean that your the only girl that actually
"communicates" with him. So he might having you over as a friend,
If he's not then it might mean that he likes you. Some guys just use girl's by faking their niceness and then "using them up". Those are the men you ought to watch out for.
Well to find out if he really likes you you can: ask someone you know to ask him (although secrets are always the fastest way things get out), you can "flirt" with him and see what happens. Or you can wait and see what happens, but that's the slowest way things happen if not at all: waiting.
If he likes you he might have the same issue with you: trying to figure out if you like him.
Goodluck. :)
~LG23~
2007-01-15 11:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Legend2300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self respect girl- if you've got that then you won't care if you're being too obvious!
But whatever you do don't let him "do stuff" to you because you think that'll make him like you- guys will always take advantage.
2007-01-15 11:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM!!!! Ask him whats going on and wheres you guys are at. Its not right to let him confuse your mind, if you let that then you won't know what to do. He needs to know if you like him because who knows he is confused too. Maybe he wasn't sure if you want him or not. ITs the best if you tell him that you like him and will like the answer from him if he wants try it to process with you. If he give you confuse answer, move on, hes not that worth to you. Other guys will be better than him.
2007-01-15 11:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH, that's tough I kinda have the same prob, just ask a friend to spend sometime w him if he mentions or asks about you, he probably likes you.
2007-01-15 11:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that some really ugly person likes him. Ask if he likes her. Ask who he likes.
Trust me, I tried it and now I have a boyfriend.
2007-01-15 11:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Birtha Borleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur friend to ask him.......or just be obvious and say do u like me? Write him a note
2007-01-15 11:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk too him it not gonna hurt try it
2007-01-15 11:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by tuchulapr0808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋