I have 3 sons 30, 27, and 21 ; they are successful; finished college; have strong , independent girlfriends/wife that I get along with ; never any problems until this past year when my 30 yr old facing intestinal reconstruction told me to get the h out of room that he doesn't need a mommy any more; (when several days before he called me begging for advice about a second opinion for the surgery) my next son, I asked him to leave at 26 after never contributing etc (told me I would have to evict him) he moved out and is now getting married next year (of course he asked for money for the wedding) my youngest son just had a big argument with me and told me that I borrow money when he was in high school and never paid him back 150.00 - he lives under my roof; helped him with car; my heart breaks for the things that they said to me this year and I burst into tears at the drop of a hat? What do I do now , step back , give time , any advice ; oops there goes another tear! I am so hurt
2007-01-04
07:32:10
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