The father of my children is a complete and total dead beat. He always complains that he doesn't see his kids because of lack of money. I told him that money wasn't the most important thing, just be involved in their life, and he still wouldn't come see them. He has so many excuses. In the meantime, I really need his help, because I have developed a hernia, which doesn't allow me to work and I can't have surgery until after January. He recently got locked up and had weed on him. When he finally called, I cursed him out because for a year I've been hearing how he doesn't have money but he can afford to buy weed, new clothes, etc. In the mean time I'm taking care of 2 kids, with the help of my best friend, and I do hair, but somedays I really can't work because of the pain from the hernia. He wants to see the kids when he gets out. He hasn't been there for them and they don't know him. I don't see the point in disrupting their lives when he's gonna bail on them again anyway.
2006-12-17
00:47:56
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