My girlfriend of 3 years works closely with a guy who used to be her 'sex buddy'. I've always been told tha it was only ever a 'physical thing' and that they never went out on dates.
Recently my girlfriend was sent to a conference (yes that's true, I'm good friends with other people who work there and they went to) and this guy went with her.
Now I've never had a problem with their continued friendship, but I found out from my girlfriend that they spent the evening while at this work thing reminiscing about old times and getting drunk together. This made me highly uncomfortable because their 'old times' were entirely sexual. They didn't know each other long before they began the relationship.
I've mentioned my concern and said that I'm uncomfortable with it, but have been told to 'stop being so stupid'.
Am I justified in being agitated by this?
Would you allow a partner to spend a drunken evening with someone they used to have a purely physical relationship with?
2006-12-15
01:19:01
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Pete D
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