My partner and I have been together for 3 years.
We are currently 37 weeks pregnant (planned)
He was married to the mother of his almost 4 year old, now divorced.
I have a 5 year old.
our baby was planned, but we fell pregnant a month ahead of schedule (planning to give birth late jan early feb, instead late dec early jan.) I think my partner had planned to propose before I fell pregnant, so that he didnt feel pressured by his highly religious family to get married before the babies birth-as he did in his previous marriage which ended in divorce- I therefore told him that he had better not ask me to marry him simply because his dad thinks it is not the right thing to do. (our baby will be loved regardless of a ring) the problem is that I am not religous and there fore think that a wedding is simply a fancy dress party that costs alot, my partner sees it as a promise to each other in the 'eyes of god' any opinions on this?
2006-12-02
18:22:49
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