I want to reconcile with my ex. Haven't filed the papers yet. I was busy with my life--working, going to school, being stressed out. He supported me financially and was a good husband. I, on the other hand, didn't pay him a lot of attention, didn't take his advice, and was generally absent. I never meant to make him feel unloved...I was trying to make things better for our future. Once I was done with school, he could quit his job and seek his dreams. He said all I did was use him and abuse him, which is unfair.
Being apart from him for three weeks has given me time to reflect on my role as a wife, and what I did wrong. I don't think our relationship could've gotten better if he had remained in the house. It's a wake-up call.
He said he was lonely and missed me, but didn't say anything about reconciling. We are attracted to each other and love each other. He's so hurt. Been playing it cool, letting him lead the way.
Is it too late? Best approach?
2006-11-25
00:31:03
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Calc44
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Marriage & Divorce