I am the wife of a man who plays in a band. We are not young (middle aged) He has cheated on me many many times in our 12 years of marriage, we are not living together at the moment because of this. However, we do just about everything together. Really, nothing has changed except that we have seperate houses. I will never be able to trust him, he has proven that. I know he will never be faithful. The good thing is, he helps me when things need fixing around the house, we go on vacations and he is not selfish with his finances. So, what do I do? As much as I can't stand the fact that I can't trust him at all, I am just as afraid to let him go completely. Why? I guess because I know I can count on him when I really need him. But is this any reason to accept this situation and keep doing what we're doing? Help, someone, please, what would you do if you were me?
2006-11-20
18:06:14
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