We've been together for 4 yrs now. We live together, have a life together, and my son who's 5 has no memory of life without him. We've had problems, but who hasn't? After a stress filled week, I find out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. We've talked about it so often for the past year that I'm sure he'll be thrilled. Not only is he NOT thrilled, he'd like for us not to keep it. He cites every cliche reason in the book, ranging from us "argueing a lot lately", to the "timing being off" (he just started a new job). I'm 28 yrs old. He knows (& agrees) that I want to have one more baby before 30. For the first time in our relationship, he actually mentioned the possibility of us not staying together; "What if we break up? I wouldn't want you to be a single mom with 2 kids". I have NEVER heard him say anything of the sort before, & if anything, has always been the confident, optimistic one. Does this mean he's never been serious? Am I missing something... a hint? What do you think?
2006-10-30
01:50:27
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