Ok. We've been friends for about 2 months and she knows I like her. She's not the type of girl who would just go along with your scheme. If she wants something she'll have it, and vice versa. What do I do to take this friendship to a new level, without being too blunt about it. Like, I need that one move that'll change everything. I just don't know what it is yet.
2006-10-30 01:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make her realize that you want more out of the friendship and start doing little sweet things that a boyfriend would do. But don't over due it. send her flowers or write a poem but only once every two weeks. Therefore it would give her time to get feelings for you and examine her feelings toward you.
2006-10-30 01:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking for "one move that will change everything?" Sorry pal, but I think you've watched one too many John Cusak movies. In real life, the nice guy doesn't always get the girl. More often, the nice girl end up with a schmuck because of HER issues. And all you can do is sit there and watch like a doormat/puppy or get on with your life.
If this girl really is as together as you say, and has what she wants, then if she wanted you, she would have you by now right? Chances are, she sees you as a friend, and that's what you'll have to settle for.
Then again, there is another possibility. You say you've known her for only two months. Two months? Be real. You know absolutely nothing about her. Nearly everything you think about her is in your head. I'm sure you've imagined wonderfully romatic moments between the two of you that reflect YOUR desires, not who she really is. My advice is take some more time, be friends, and get to know her. Who knows, in another two months you may very well ask yourself what you were thinking.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 02:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date and the whole time you are out be a complete gentleman, open the car door for her, push her chair in when she sits down, treat her like a lady (you can look this up on how to be a gentleman) it might feel weird doing this but it will make a good impression. At the end of your date make sure you tell her you enjoyed her company and would like to see her again. No kisses (on the check is ok) unless she makes the first move. I know this sounds weird but all my girlfriends say they would like for once to be treated like a lady and not to be expected to put out or act if they owe them a favor. Good Luck
2006-10-30 02:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by melbow35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send her flowers with a little love poem telling her how you feel about her. Then, tell her to call you so all can meet up somewhere and all can talk. Tell her that you like her and you want to take this relationship to another if, that is okay with her. If, she just wants to remain friends for a little while. I think you should respect her wishes. You don't want to lose her. All always be their for. Let her know no matter what happens you will always be their for her.
2006-10-30 01:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by DeOsher L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that she is that into you if you say that if she wants something she gets it so i feel that trying to make the first move in this situation could be hazzardous to your friend ship so just let her make that move sorry if this hurts but i speak from expirenece no this kind of situation
2006-10-30 02:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by shadow1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get to close as a frind becouse may not want to hurt ur friend ship so if you are not to close yet be very blunt but sweet at the time buddy ur friend D.L
2006-10-30 01:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well once u are cute, u have a good job. money. ur own place, a car that only leaves being honest with her. try it if doen't work out u'll know it wasn't u
2006-10-30 01:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt.
2006-10-30 01:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always best to be blunt
2006-10-30 01:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like her and ask her if she feels the same. if she says yea then ask her out
2006-10-30 01:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by L00KiN F0R MR. RiGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋