I feel useless like I dont matter, and that hardly anyone cares about me and i have so many thoughts of suicide, I just cant find a reason to live anymore and I am so tired of suffering and feeling so bad....i know it is kinda of selfish but i hav no idea y i should live anymore....help?
2006-10-30 01:50:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
A series of events over a period of time usually is the reason a person will think of ending their life. Usually victims of abuse go through many suicidal times. Abused people do feel worthless, and unfortunately they were made to feel that way by another person/people. Victims of abuse do the suffering and the perpetrators get off scott free. You need some professional help in dealing with whatever has happened to you in your life. You have to find a way to put things into perspective. You have to put the blame where it belongs and its not with you. With professional help, and maybe medication will you beat this thing. Being by yourself is not good. You need to surround yourself with good caring people.
You are not worthless, you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars...you have a right to be here and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should. You are feeling this way because of a series of event you have had no control over. Now is the time to get your control back.....seek the help you so desperately need, find your personal power...it is there, its hiding in there someone...you just need to find it. You can beat this and if you kill yourself what hope is there of ever knowing a better life. Once youre dead you are dead and all hope is gone. I used to work with street kids and a lot of those kids wanted to die...the majority of these kids came from an abusive home and like you they felt worthless. One guy in particular I felt sure would end up killing himself, but I saw him 6 years later...he was married to a gorgeous wife with 2 beautiful children...he was the happiest man in all the world. He thanked me actually for giving him hope because I used to tell him all the time that no-one knows what is around the corner, and you may have to turn several corners before good things start happening, just be sure though you will eventually turn one corner in particular and the happiness you have been longing for will be there. Youve got to keep going on until you turn your personal corner. Things never stay the same, but if you kill yourself you willl never find out if that is the truth. You need to get some help, seriously, you need support. You have to be strong, hold your head up and tell yourself, tomorrow is the start of the rest of my life and I am going to start doing something positive to help myself. Make a phone call, that is the first step, maybe ring a crisis line and they will refer you to the places that will be most helpful for you. You are the only one who can make a change in your life, no-one can do it for you. There will be probably tough times ahead when you learn to deal with your pain, but I guarantee with every problem you concquer you will become stronger and stronger. Once you overcome your hurdles you will feel so good about yourself because you did it. You were strong enough to beat suicide. Thats a huge feat in itself, but like I said, you are the only one who can change and getting help is the first step.
I wish you well, you have the rest of your life ahead of you and your corner could just be a street away...you dont know...no-one knows what is around the corner. Baby steps, one step at a time and you will eventually get there. Think positive, know in your heart that you have the strength to do this. Tell yourself positive things...dont dwell on the negative. Dont end up a statistic because you wont be alive to even regret making the decision to end your life. Its a huge step because once you decide to end it you cant go back...its final. You are a precious person, you werent put on this earth for nothing. There has got to be a reason for you being here and you need to find it.
Please get some help.
2006-10-30 02:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You are unique and lovable. Just look at all these people surrounding you with positive vibes and love. I got injured four years ago, and can't walk much, I don't work, mostly am house bound, wife doesn't talk much to me any more, and the kids don't visit. I earn about 30% of what I used to, and I am in pain most days. Its depressing but I'm not depressed. I decided to make the best of what Ive got. I read a lot, go on the computer and speak to a lot of friends I have made, took University courses, study everything from photography to the Bible. You have been given a very special gift....a life. Don't waste it, or destroy it, build one step at a time. change it if you don't like it. God loves you and we love you. Depression is a terrible thing, don't let it swallow you. Decide to live, and get better, and have a better life. Start laughing for no reason at all, go outside and look around and try to count as many beautiful things you see. Start with one....yourself. Find things to do you love and get a passion for something. Join a church, or a club. take up a hobby, no on second thought take up four or five. Stay busy and smile, because this is the only life you will get so make the best of it. Pray to God, what do you have to lose. He understands and will help. God bless you richly my dear. Stay healthy and happy. I will pray much for you.
2016-03-28 01:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are experiencing a serious depression right now. You can feel better, you just need to seek out a little help. There are anti-depressant medications out there that really make a difference in how you feel. Also, talking to a trained professional counselor could help you too. You are not alone, lots of people feel this way, but many times it really is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain, and you can get help for it.
Good luck and please seek some help!
2006-10-30 02:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone close to you that can help you get some help. If you don't have anyone you trust, simply call 911 or your local Crisis line. I know it's hard to ask for help but because you posted this question I can tell you are in in need. You sound like you could use some time in an Inpatient Psychiatric Unit, in a hospital, sounds very scary, but you are probably very scared of doing something to hurt yourself as well. Seek help before it is too late. ...please...
2006-10-30 02:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying "everything will get better in the end. If it's not better, than it's not the end." It's really hard to think positive when things are really bad. But, things eventually get better. Take it in small steps. Try to enjoy small things - like a child laughing in the park. Take a long walk and enjoy the scenery. Go somewhere you have never been - even if it's in your city. Volunteer and meet new people. Take care of yourself; read a book, take a bubble bath, get a new haircut, get a massage, etc.
I strongly recommend you talk to a therapist. Sometimes we need someone's objective opinion who is a third-party. If you need someone immediately, call your local suicide hotline asap!
And there are people who care for you. I care about you, even though you are a perfect stranger to me. And I am sure there are many others who care for you and you don't realize it. It would great loss for them if you weren't around.
Take care of yourself and I wish you the best!
2006-10-30 03:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by AutumnLilly 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
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2015-03-25 03:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were put on this earth for a reason.... dont kill yourself because you will never find out what that reason was. You are depressed and need counseling SOON. Please go to a counselor and learn how to live and be happy! People do care for you even though it may not seem that way. You do have a purpose in life. You are a good person. Allow yourself to be happy. Good luck to you! Take care
2006-10-30 03:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
get a puppy, he/she will always love you and be loyal to you no matter what happens...... and maybe having the responsibility of taking care of him/her will make you re-think....... hang in there, dont give up that easily. life sucks.... but thats why we stay and live, is so we can prove that no matter what life throws at us, we will survive! when im down i usually do something radical.... once, i egged my boss's (now my ex-boss's) office! i lost my job, but i felt great after wards cuz i didnt care!
ps. i would recommend a german shepherd or a jack russell : )
2006-10-30 02:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by appaloosaskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide is not the answer. you should seek some professional help. get your self into therapy and on some medications. i have been where you are and it's not a nice place to be but i don't want to die anymore. i want to live and if you get the right help you will too. if indeed your thinking of killing yourself you should check yourself into the hospital so they can help you. please don't give up on yourself..
2006-10-30 02:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Special 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
please dear, seek medical help right away. It sounds like you are in a deep depression, and it is curable. Ending your life is not the answer, believe me, I dont know you but you have SO much to live for. Depression is treatable, and you can lead a normal life with it...please, see your doctor. You will thank yourslef later, and those around you that love you will also thank you. I will be praying for you.
2006-10-30 01:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by lyfsavr1 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋