Me and my Mr. Wonderful are incredibly happy together. He was married when he was 17 on spring break of his senior year as he had impregnated his now ex-wife. For 10 years he tried to make it work as she displayed no desire for a family and wound up in rehab for crack. From the whole mess came 2 amazingly wonderful children, a long awaited divorce, and now his second chance for true love with me. The kids adore me, we are all so happy, but there is his ex....acting like a 12 year old. She trash talks me to his oldest (9 yrold girl) and tells her she doesn't like me and that I should "go marry someone else and find a family of my own"... Okay... I understand she's upset. I am NOT trying to STEAL her children or replace her. I want to get along with her and be ADULTS for the sake of these amazing kids. She, however, seems to have an agenda of making us all miserable...even making her own kids miserable. What can be expected in situations like this? How do I handle her gracefully?
2006-10-30
02:32:35
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Jennifer L
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Marriage & Divorce