why does my mum and dad h8 me so much?

Question

i like school but i'm scared to go now my mum and dad h8 me wot should i do please help me.

Answer 1

I hope your mum and dad don't hate you. But if they are mistreating you, tell someone at school - a teacher you trust, a counselor. These people can help you find a safe place to go if home is NOT safe for you.

Answer 2

It's really hard to say why you think your parents hate you. In fact, I'm pretty sure they do not hate you, they are probably just doing that parents thing. My mom and I fight, continuously, we bicker, and we certainly hate one another, but it's just sometimes parents and children do not always have that perfect movie like connection. Maybe they don't hate you, but they hate things about you. I'm not sure of your age, but I think it's just common knowledge that parents dislike their teenagers. Let's face it, there are times when we can be absolute buttheads. Now, my question is this, what have you done? What have you done that are causing your parents to have a negative reaction towards you? I'm assuming you are older than 10. I could come here and tell everyone that my mom hates me. Granted that may be true, but what did I do? Well, I ran away, I got drunk and passed out at a friend party, I wrecked her car...etc (just an example by they way) Maybe you should sit down with them at lunch or dinner and have a discussion with them. Tell them that you feel that they dislike you. Tell them that you want to help make things better and ask how you can do that. And after you've told them what you can do, tell them what they can do. Express how they make you feel. Sometimes a family meeting, as cheesy as it sounds, is the best way to sort things out.

Answer 3

I do not think that your parents h8 you they might be trying some different things but i do not know the whole situation which really makes it hard to answer a question like this if you really want to talk about this more in depth e mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 4

You must go to school, you don't say why your scared but if people are mean just pay no attention. You HAVE to HAVE an education. Go talk to someone at your school to help you get through your problems. Moms and dads don't hate their kids so stop thinking that. GO BACK TO SCHOOL, and quit feeling sorry for your self. What you accomplish now will pay off in your future. Grow up and make something of yourself.

Answer 5

I am sure that they don't hate you!! Disappointed in the fact that you don't want to go to school becasue they had high hopes for you to do better for yourself.

I can understand the fear of going to school. the presures of doing well and getting good grades weighs heavy on all the other things that ones time could be spent doing other than facing the challanges of life. take a step back and look at things from a wider perspective and talk with them and let them now of your fears of going and that you need their love and support regardless of your choices.

Answer 6

You have multiple problems here. I doubt that your parents hate you. Why do you hate school? Do you have difficulty with all relationships? It may be a stage you are going through. See the school counselor and try to sit down and work out your feelings with your parents.

Answer 7

I don't know the whole situation, but, maybe you should talk to your parents about this or get some counseling. I can't imagine any parent hating their child, maybe they have things going on in their life or past and they can't show their love. I used to think my mom hated me, because, how can she do these horrible things to her own flesh and blood. but, I have learned she had her own issues from her past that caused her to do these horrible things. We talked and she apologized, I forgave her and we are very close now. So, give your parents a chance, before you jump to conclusions.

Answer 8

im sure your parents dont hate you i have a 4 year old im sure he thinks same when i tell him no and since i was 17 i raised my 2 younger brothers there 21 and 11 now i m 24 my brother would scream he hated me because i stood firm and did not let him do as he wanted too on graduation day my lifes proudest moment was when he took the diploma stood up to the mic said thanks sis for getting me here love you...so sometimes adults make harsh descions its not out of hate its out of love ..rember parents are not here forever hon

Answer 9

Try to analyze all your daily activities to see the point that make your Mom and Dad SAD. Keep in mind that you wont live with you parents forever and education is the only thing that can support you throughout your life please go to school.

Answer 10

It depends on what you mean by hate. How old are you? If they are hitting you randomly, or if they say mean things all the time, its called abuse. Tell someone at school, a teacher or the school counselor. They will help you.