i was not attracted romantically but he had always been attracted to me.I wasn't gona date him cuz even thou our personalities are similar,we are amazingly different at the same time. He is a stereo typical rocker/metalhead right down to the drinking &drugs &playing kickass guitar! I'm mature,serious,devoted 2 school& work& don't drink/smoke. He&I were there 4 each other when bad things happened and just over a couple of months we're almost like best friends we just have this amazing connection & then somehow we started dating.it was very troublesome in the beginning we broke up twice in the 1st week(cuz we felt uncomfy cuz we were like best friends)but always got back 2gether in a day or2.Then his drinking& smoking really got to me(it never did when we were friends but its different when ur a couple)we broke up(3rd time),we were still good friends, he was sad and told me he wanted me back and he will change.I told him it’s a bad idea and that its not fair to him to change 4 someone unless he wants to change for himself. and that he did & didn't do drugs/drink 4 a week, he complained about being sober all the time but also said that he is doing this for us and its important to him. then he did acid & told me cuz he can’t lie to me. I can’t deal with him being f***ed up,I love him no matter what ,I did and always will but he is what he does and its not fair 4 either of us to make a compromise. he is unhappy if he doesn’t do drugs and I’m stressed out when he does.and hes also moving away but wants to keep up a long distance relationship.his friends never liked me cauz I’m too clean 4 them &him. should I end this for good &just be friends??i’m so confused!plz help!!we’ve known each other since august and have been dating for 3 weeks now.i’m two yrs older than him.he doesn’t plan on going to school but he works and pays his bills responsibly but also wastes a bunch of money on drugs…plz guide me.i don’t want to lose him or him to be hurt if he doesn’t have me by his side but I can’t keep hurting myself by putting up with what I don’t approve of PLZ HELP!!!
2006-10-27
21:04:47
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