She recently told me that she's not in love with me, and never has been. She doesn't want to seperate because we just moved into a new house together with our 2 kids. She doesn't want to have sex because she says it's too complicated. She leaves most of the housework to me and rarely comes home.
There was no fight, no unresolved issue, nothing. I was blindsided.
However, I seriouly doubt she's cheating - it's just not her. She is an amazingly talented person - artist, cook, dancer, writer - she is a force of nature. She's 5'3", 107 lbs, red hair - HOT!!!
I still love her, but I feel in my heart that we're over.
I don't want to leave her because she would be financially ruined, but I can't just watch her grow apart from me.
What the hell should I do?!?
2006-10-24
13:53:44
·
36 answers
·
asked by
felonius_monkey
3
in
Marriage & Divorce