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I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.
My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.
I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and even kiss me, when going out.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a father daughter way and calling me dad?
2006-10-24 13:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your relationship with them sounds healthy and i wouldnt change a thing. If there happy and your wife is happy then i would say all is good. They've been calling you dad for a long time so i dont see a problem with them kissing you goodnight. Most girls do that with there dads, my child does. As far as the dad thing, your all they know. Why not enjoy that? It all sounds good and they seem to be happy with it.
2006-10-24 14:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by *COCO* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it unless it makes them or yourself uncomfortable. And I think that its great what you have done for them and even better that they look up to you as a father figure since they lost theirs. Just dont forget about your own kids because they might feel a little jealous of the attention that your wifes sisters are getting and may feel like their not loved as much so make sure you let them know how much you love them.
2006-10-24 14:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having problems dealing with their intimacy. When they were younger you felt safe. Did their kisses bother you then.? Probably not. Now that they are becoming women it is a different matter. You have loved them as children but they are now young women and not your biological daughters.!!!! To protect yourself you would rather if they were not as intimate with you. You just have to be disciplined. Daughters are usually quite emotionally closer to fathers and sons to their mothers. You will manage the situation admirably. As you usually do. By acknowledging that you are not doing anything that you should not. Yes, you are their 'dad' and they love you, and it is only natural that they will hug you and kiss you as any daughter would with her dad. OK. Enjoy the love that is being shared with you.
2006-10-24 14:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fine for them to call you dad and give you a kiss like they would there dad. you have raised them for all them years and you are probaly the only dad that they really know. if they want to call you dad and they want to give you a little kiss like they would a dad then as long as you are okay with it then there is no problem from what i can see. you are there dad now and you should always let them know that you are proud that they call you dad and they respect you as there father friend and brother in law
2006-10-24 14:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how they kiss you. If it's just a small peck on the cheek then no harm done. But if the who thing still just makes you uncomfortable then just ask them to stop.
2006-10-24 13:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering why you are asking this. If the kisses are pecks on the cheek, of course it's cool, and no one would even question it. But if it's on the mouth and wet, dude, you know better.
2006-10-24 14:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling you Dad i think is fine, considering how old they were when you came into their lives...
Now kissing, on the cheek, i think is fine... any other place to kiss i would think is a problem, maybe the forhead or thing just as innocent is ok aswell...
never, i mean never, on the lips...
2006-10-24 13:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume its on the cheek. I dont see a problem with it at all...unless they have romantic feelings for you. You sound like a great guy!
2006-10-24 13:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by DancinDeeva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where in the world are you? ... we need more guys like you around. Kissing - for these girls, nothing romantic is acceptable. Almost every family do this.
2006-10-24 14:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay for them to kiss you, unless you have a suspicious feeling toward them.
2006-10-24 14:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋