I am a 29 year old woman and I am getting married in exactly two weeks. A very big traditional wedding. I am ecstatic! My problem: I am a plus sized woman...and my mom hates it! My mother is Korean and my father is African American-to oriental moms, image means EVERYTHING! At least to the ones I know. I've been told on numerous occasions that I am beautiful, I've had strangers stop me in stores to compliment me, my loving Fiance' tells me almost every day. She lives out of state and has not seen me in 3 years. I was plus sized then, have been for 10 years at least. No conversation on the phone ends w/out her asking me if I have lost weight. I've tried to not let it bother me or cry but I am worried about what she will say. My self esteem is horrible, & unlike most blushing brides in their wedding dress, I'm dreading what she will say about me in mine and that she will ruin my day. Any suggestions on what I should say should she bring up my weight while she is here?
2006-10-21
18:23:47
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