Let me start out by saying: This pertains to a SERIOUS relationship. I'm 24 and my bf is 26, we live together.
I hate to admit it but our sex life is horrible. We only have sex once or at the MOST twice a week! I've made it known that this is a problem for me. And honestly, I think it's a control issue. It's like he gets a kick out of being able to control when we have sex. He knows I want it all the time and it gives him some sort of satisfaction NOT give it to me. I've tried to understand this and to a point - accept it. But the more I think about it, the more it upsets me.
He doesn't seem to understand that this is hurting our relationship. Sex is not my number one priority. But when you are turned down time and time again, it hurts.
Other than this issue, he's a really great boyfriend. He doesn't try to control me in any other way. I love him and I don't want this to ruin us but I don't know how much I can take.
Has any body else experienced this? What do I do?
2006-09-28
05:45:27
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