I've been trying to leave my husband now actively for the last 4 years. Everytime I try it turns into a huge deal even though I know he loves someone else, as do I. I've tried to get him to admitt that the relationship is over and he will to a certain extent but he is clinging to this like divorce will destroy the family. Background; we've been together on and off for 12 years, have 4 kids but recently started living together even though we got married 6 years ago. It hasn't been all bad but. But when it is bad it's horrible the way things go down. Also, he's been messing around with the same female for damn near 7 years, even though she's married also now. All I want is to be free but he won't let go even to be with this other chick, which I could care less about, I just want to be left alone. I've even cheated and told him I'd never be faithful to him again, but still he insists the family remain intact. The past has been nothing but drama filled. What can I do or am I wrong?
2006-09-26
20:05:16
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Dani L
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Marriage & Divorce