If a man deeply falls in love with a woman will he lose feelings or temptations to call his ex? Even if he always has feelings..what does it mean if he still calls his ex? that he doesn't love his new girlfriend?
2006-09-26 20:04:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not good. If he still is in contact with his ex and has admitted having feelings for her that cannot be good for you. How did their relationship end? If he was dumped then he could still want to be with her. He may only be with you because is scared of being alone. The fact that he calls his ex is very disrespectful to you. Ask him, "If so and so called and wanted to get back together with you, would you go with her?" If he tells you yes, you should probably get out and find someone who is emotionally available.
2006-09-26 20:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what upsets you...always remember that good communication plays a vital role in a healthy relationship...if he does love her still why he have had you as a girlfriend in the first place?....now tell him that you really love him and that you would want him to be happy even if it could mean without you....assure him that you are willing to wait for him until he has cleared his thoughts...he has to find himself first before he could give you full attention in which you would want it that way better off than spending time with him but his thoughts are with his ex....i guess it's much tough!..so keep your cool ok...it's still for your own benefit.
2006-09-27 03:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's hanging onto the hope that someday they may get back together. I'd confront him and tell him that it freaks you out. On the other hand, some guys never want to be the bad guy, and so they feel the need to maintain friendships with all of their ex's. Either way, you need to sort that situation out with him, as you could start to resent him for keeping in touch with this ex.
2006-09-27 03:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY...Im out and looking for a new relationship kind of. I was in a long one. I realize its done, but unfortunately i have a lot lingering feelings for my ex. That doesnt mean i dont want or cant start to love another person. Try helping him get over her instead of worrying about it. You'll keep him if you assist him and focus his attention toward YOU instead of her. It will get you farther, but dont be overparanoid in front of him bc it'll get his ex back in his mind.
2006-09-27 03:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think that way. even if he really loves you that doesnt mean he can just forget about his ex. guys can be very hung up on their exs and some take forever to get over them..
just dont tell him not to contact her because that will drive him right back into her arms. and because guys are childen. they'll do the exact opposite of what you tell them to do..
but do stand up for yourself, all the ebst to you and be strong. ;-)
2006-09-27 03:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by blithe_vow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think he will lose feelings or temptation to call his ex.... but you must also consider that they had a relationship before and it is possible for them to have a communication.
2006-09-27 03:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may still have a feeling for his Ex., if I was him! That does not mean that he can not get over her ex's present status of being ex.!
2006-09-27 03:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe that you cant get away of feeling...they go away on their own...you cant just tell them to go away..i say talk to him and he mite still need a lil time to get over her....he mite have rushed it to things with you too fast...cuz he should love the both of you at the same time..soo i say talk to him about it...
2006-09-27 03:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by NiKkI Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah your doomed.
2006-09-27 03:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f still has feeling what can you do, maybe confront him.
2006-09-27 03:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋