I am 14 and she is 11 so how can I tell her how I feel with out putting pressure on her. I am quite nervous, We all know she wants me though.
(I bet everyone will call me a pedo like alwes)
2006-09-26 20:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Zach - In love with Sabrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write down everything you want to say first before you call her, so you can organize your thoughts
2006-09-26 20:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 11. Even if she seems mature, she's still smack dab in the middle of the innocence of childhood. If you really care about her, you'll do nothing more than befriend her for now.
Is it possible that you're looking to her to fill a need for love and affection that should be met elsewhere? It's a lot of pressure for an 11 year old to have to bear.
Resist the urge to hide behind the phone; that's what you'd be doing. If you're too shy, write her a letter that tells her how special she is, that you care a lot for her, and that you'd like to be her friend. Then let it go until she's considerably older. It's not fair to her to make her grow up too quickly. If you're honest with yourself, you'll know that doing so would be for YOU rather than her. And that doesn't seem too caring.
2006-09-26 20:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would write it down first before you call. If she wants you, is this the real deal or a passing fancy? Above all, don't put all of your eggs in one basket with her. You have a lot to learn about girls and dating.
2006-09-26 20:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettohara1861 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put down the phone and confront her face to face
2006-09-26 20:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young!!! and your right... you might put pressure on her.. although she likes you but that's not enough... the word "like" is not enough... i think what you feel is just an "infatuation". and if you think that what you feel for her is more than infatuation just think about this; there's always a "right love" at the "right time"..
okay?! ..n_n..
2006-09-26 20:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never on phone you can take her to the movies and ask her if she wants to be with u
2006-09-26 20:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you must contemplate about what your gonna say, then your not sure about her at all. It is not hard to express what's on your mind unless you have a complex.
2006-09-26 20:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her by the way of telling her an animal story ,starting with following;one day a boy cat was asked to tell his femal friend what his feeling was,and........
2006-09-26 20:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by peter w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes to young for you.....yes to young 11 year old are not as mature as a 14 year old they are still babies ,
2006-09-26 20:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dial her number, then swallow all the choc-bar that is lodged in your mouth. Say very slowly when she answers " I feel sick".
Hope this helps
2006-09-26 20:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋