more to do with him. Once a year it seems since I turned 18 (when he first came back into my life) we do this funny little dance. He emails me or calls me or sends me a letter. (He's in cali, i'm in Virginia) It starts out nice and calm. Hi, how are you, how are things, you know that sort of thing. Then he starts bad mouthing my mom, or talking about how I dont appriciate him, something stupid like that, and then we get into a big ol argument, and then he wont talk to me for another year. This time, I dont know what I should do, should I set the ground rules that were not going to discuss my mother, and that i'm a grown woman with a husband/family of my own now, or should I just not have anything to do with him. Part of me says yes, talk to him, find out how he is, maybe I will be able to have a normal relationship with my father this time, but the other part of me says forget it. What would you all do??????
2006-09-08
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