We have an 18mth. old boy, I stay home all day while he works. I am lonely, and in need of some good lovin' but I'm not the naughty girl I used to be and find it really difficult to go from one extreme to the other. I was the initiator usually and feel neglected because he seems to expect it of me. I need HIM to help me in order to be that"girl" for him again, but how do I express this w/out a fight breaking out and ruining everything? I realize we're not young parents and get tired, but w/out any intimacy, I'm losing my desires and my self esteem drops daily. I don't want to
end up thinking once a month is okay...it isn't, not w/us at least. I know it's going to be up to me, so where do I begin??? Right now I feel so unattractive and un-sexual and that's not the woman I was before I had a baby. What happened?
2006-09-03
04:59:24
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