Here's the deal. Recently someone asked about the 'first time', I wrote an answer which basically argues that the physiological features are part of a much larger picture, a relationship paradigm, if you will - and that it is this larger picture which determines what your experience will be. And of course I presented an alternative... For more details, see that question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An.fFs60Gej1L7iglqogq2jsy6IX?qid=20060726113656AAcIlLp
What I want to know is, why would anyone choose a different view, if they can have something beautiful and respectful? Is it that they:
want to be viewed as men's property?
want to evade responsibility for their lives?
think getting pleasure from a man's abuse of their body is good?
don't like thinking new thoughts - "Better a devil I do know, than one I don't know?"
had a bad experience and don't want to think their suffering was needless?
Or some other reason?
2006-08-04
08:08:05
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songkaila
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Marriage & Divorce