We have been together for over 3 years, but we are pretty young. We are both almost 23 and graduated from college in May. We have steady jobs, and plan on keeping our finances separate (except for splitting grocery bills, and stuff like that).
We have been sure of our plans for several months now, but now I feel nervous because our move-in date is coming up.
Also, I kind of feel anxious because I would like to be engaged, because I would feel more secure. But maybe this is because I watch too many wedding shows and see too many engagement ring advertisements...haha
I'm not sure what is the right thing in this situation because I think it's a little ridiculous to be engaged at 22/23, but I am a Christian and feel guilty for living together before marriage. I know I can't live without him, I just want some sort of guarantee that he feels our relationship is as permanent as I feel it is...
Please give me your honest advice, even if it's bad news!!!
2006-07-09
19:20:41
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Julia
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Marriage & Divorce