I am nineteen years old. I moved out of home when I was seventeen, and have been living with my boyfriend since then. He is twenty-five, and make about three times as much as I do. Recently we have had some problems, (well, not just recently) and I am beginning to wonder if they're the kind that can be solved. He thinks that maybe the reason we have issues is because we are practically married anyways, but we separate everything financial, and there is a definite division between our two lives. He thinks that our only problem is that we're not married. I am afraid that our problems aren't related to that, and by getting married we'd just be making thing worse. I have always thought of marriage as something you do when you want to have kids, and you're done with school, and ready for a lifetime commitment...I love him so much, and can see us getting married someday, but right now?
2006-07-04
07:21:41
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