I've been married 15 years. We have a wonderful 14 yr old son. My husband works full-time. I am retired and work part-time. My husband has always expected me to pay the mortgage and all of the grocery bills. He does not contribute towards paying for our son's shoes, clothes, coats, school supplies, hobbies, etc. My husband pays the cable, the heat and electric, and the car insurance. He uses much of his money to gamble with. I have always been very resentful about our unevenly divided expenses, but my husband will not discuss it with me. He spends as little time as possible with our son, and our son feels very unloved by him. I stay with my husband because our son is so afraid that if his dad is not living in our home, he will not see him. Unfortunately, this could very well be the case, since my husband is very self-centered and has never really taken on the true role of being "dad". How would you handle this situation if you were me?
2007-07-10
13:33:02
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