Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

Dudes, I'm having another identity crisis.

Who am I without my Avatar "imagine".

Where am I?

2007-01-26 22:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many straight people, myself included, are concerned about the influence a gay couple may have over an adopted child. How can the gay community help us to overcome these fears and issues. I am looking for sensible answers and I am not insulting the gay community.

2007-01-26 22:46:50 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't know she was a bigot until AFTER I fell in love with her. She made some comments but I thought nothing of it until about a month ago, when I found out she collects swastikas. One time we were at a restaurant when she pepper sprayed a black guy who hit on her. She even put up a picture of Hitler in her bedroom and says the Triumph of the Wills is her favorite movie! Then she told me she picked me because of my Aryan features, when I thought she loved me for who I am as an individual. I hate racism but what am I going to do? I'm in love.

2007-01-26 22:42:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hates to think about this problem .... its so hard to deal with .......... its mmy mom

2007-01-26 22:17:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my girlfriend i loved her last night after having a few drinks and although i was merry i meant every word but now i've scared her off. As she's bi she's sorta seein a guy and before i told her this she sd she was gonna talk to him about us and now i'm afraid she won't do it and things will go unsaid between us. She's not picked up my calls from last night and just need some advice as to how to fix it all...

2007-01-26 21:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by Lea 2

2007-01-26 21:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by kunal2006mandal 1

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now at first i dint want to go out with him coz he was 21 and im 18 age diffrence was kinda bothering mebefore but now its diffrent he is a medical student and a gorgs Brazilian we r sooo crazy in love with eachother everything he dose seems to be sweet and romantic and everything is perfect between us i wodnt wanna change anything but the thing is we havn had sex... yet or even got close to well kinda as in we kiss alot all the tounge action and everything but we dont go far and he is my frist ever bf and im his frist ever bf he came out last year and im only out with my friends but not with my family its just is he not sexually in to me or somthing or is he shy?

2007-01-26 21:01:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 20:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by jigadee 4

we are no different than you are ,,, so why??

2007-01-26 20:56:21 · 12 answers · asked by lesbianspawn 2

2007-01-26 20:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by jigadee 4

Eric Williams is nice, but?

2007-01-26 20:39:29 · 21 answers · asked by Andrew S 1

What the best option is to reject or accept this feeling and go for sex change? Is sex change at the age of 35 or 40 are good

2007-01-26 20:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by eisya r 1

do they lean a little more toward one sex ..?Like, do they say - "I love sex with guys- but I like it with girls a little bit more"?

I like looking at other women, and If the right woman aproached me, I might go out with her, but I don't know if I go so far as to say I'm bisexual- I love being with men, and I'd rather be in the company of men- I guess what I'm asking is:
Do bi sexuals Have a preference?

2007-01-26 20:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Vanilla 1

2007-01-26 19:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by roverman402002 2

I've been with the most amazing girl in the world for about 3 years now. We've decided we'd like to have a baby. Unfortunantly neither of us know if it is possible. I would love everyone's help and advice. Please don't judge us for being gay, We love each other and only want to get closer by having a baby.

2007-01-26 19:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by sweet_lemon_baby 1

2007-01-26 19:16:03 · 15 answers · asked by Wow 2

When a straight person finds out that I'm gay, 9 times out of 10 he or she will ask within 5 minutes of meeting me whether or not I'm a drag queen and when I say "NO" they ask me why I'm not a drag queen. Why is that?

2007-01-26 18:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Just Ask Ashley 2

are they really lesbians or was that a rumor? because i read it on a website but then they said something about people saying they were...and so now i am not sure...

2007-01-26 17:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by rat_leg danny 3

Well, I am a bisexual 14 year old and have a crush on a 16 year old boy named "John." My friend recently told me that he "came out" to his best friend on the kick line team and she told everyone on the team and that's how my friend found out and told me. (Yeah I know that is totally wrong). Anyway, John is amazing hot and seems like a nice person.

I want to meet him and talk to him and maybe go out but I don't want to approach him and ask him out because he will wonder how I know he is gay. I am sort of in the closet too so there is no way for us to get together.

DETAILS:
-I am best friends with one of his best friends. (Mary)
-I know where he works. (Library)

Any ideas on how to find out if he is interested?

2007-01-26 17:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by ... 2

2007-01-26 16:50:06 · 18 answers · asked by coffee 2

2007-01-26 16:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by mimi_vogue 2

2007-01-26 16:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by mimi_vogue 2

I was thinking of some good movies I saw a while back, like High Art, or one that I like even more is All Over Me, with Leisha Hailey and Mary Timony plays in it :). I like movies about music, or anything really, anything good you can recommend for me?

2007-01-26 16:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by catfight1980 4

I have strong feelings for this "straight girl" i know ...we're somewhat good friends. We try to get togther and hang out once a week, but I see her a few times a week cause she works in a restaurant that the leasing office I work at manages. I'm 21, bi-femme, attractive looking (im pretty boastful :-) ) So anyway...at first when we first met we were cool, but with me; when I like someone im pretty obvious...so she kinda figured I was into girls. She knows now I have a crush on her, and she claims she is secure enough to be cool with it, finds it flattering and likes the attention I give her. I don't know how straight girls are when u find out a girl likes u but, I have a weird feeling she is into me as well. Maybe im overanalying..but she's invited me over to hangout and we ended up talking for hours getting to know eachother(she would ask me questions about being with a girl)...which kind of made me think she was curious at times but she would remind me she's never kissed a girl b4

2007-01-26 16:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 16:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by Sammy 5

2007-01-26 16:01:13 · 15 answers · asked by luvsexhappiness 2

2007-01-26 15:57:32 · 19 answers · asked by Julie K 1

It isn't because of lack of love or incompatility. My gf and I have decided that it is time to **** or get off the pot. Thinking that this would be easy. Our problem is that neither of us wants to move, quit our jobs, and start a new life in a different community. We are both highly independant mature (35-40) women and have carved out lives and homes of our own.. I want her to come and live with me and she wants me to go and live with her. Not sure what to do. Maybe that is all there is... Please don't give me any crap about maybe we don't love each other enough...cause it should be simple... and the 50 / 50 thing doesn't sound appealing to her either...

2007-01-26 15:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by Kim B 3

Let's say you're living in your parent's home. ur homosexual, and they're homophobic. They don't allow you to live as who you are. This behavior is obviously stupid and idiotic in so many ways and you know it, but there isn't much you can do about it. You're the child and you're living in your parents home. Yes, there's already enough that you have to put up with, dealing with all the other stupid homophobic behavior out there. But in those cases, at least you get the pleasure of walking away from it or ignoring it because you don't live together. What really can you do though if these homophobes are your parents and you're living under their roof and you want a relationship with someone of your same sex? Homophobia is stupid and needs to be attacked once in for all. How can we deal with ignorant parents who won't let their child live as who they are?

2007-01-26 15:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend shared a really personal secret with me today, and its just bothering me. I promised not to tell anybody else, but I really do feel like I want to cry on someone's shoulders right now. Thats how much it bothers me.

So I guess my question is, will I be betraying my best friend if I told someone else about it (i.e. if I told another good freind of mine about it)? Because ...its ...just......uggggggggh..........i dunno

I dont know where else to go for advice. So I really appreciate your time for replying to this.

Thanks

2007-01-26 15:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by MrRomeo 2