me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now at first i dint want to go out with him coz he was 21 and im 18 age diffrence was kinda bothering mebefore but now its diffrent he is a medical student and a gorgs Brazilian we r sooo crazy in love with eachother everything he dose seems to be sweet and romantic and everything is perfect between us i wodnt wanna change anything but the thing is we havn had sex... yet or even got close to well kinda as in we kiss alot all the tounge action and everything but we dont go far and he is my frist ever bf and im his frist ever bf he came out last year and im only out with my friends but not with my family its just is he not sexually in to me or somthing or is he shy?
2007-01-26 21:01:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if you are his first he is probably still shy about it,,, but dont give up hope on him
2007-01-26 21:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by lesbianspawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both seem a little shy about it, since he is your first b/f. You might sit and talk about it, or you might just want to make the first move, do something romantic and work up to it, that might be the best way to go about it. unless you just undress and say lets do it. lol well good luck with whatever you do. and hope that the relationship works out for a long time.
2007-01-27 10:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pointed out something here that is very important....age difference.....the reality is not the physical age but the emotional age....most people do not see it that way
as for you two, your both at the same stage emotionally....no bf experience yet........you want to go to the next step......why not make it special..........can you afford a weekend away for just the two of you.........get a beach cabin....not a fancy hotel.......maybe some a bed and breakfast.......have flowers......romantic poem...some wine.....and let the full romance start
2007-01-27 07:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It`s always good to wait, until you know each other well.
It is, however also important to make sure you are sexually compatible, even if you only talk about it. (esp as far as gay men are concerned- what with all the roles).
2007-01-27 06:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by grafixo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..Have you two discussed the topic of sex? Are you ready, Is he ready? talk to him about it.
2007-01-27 06:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋