I told my girlfriend i loved her last night after having a few drinks and although i was merry i meant every word but now i've scared her off. As she's bi she's sorta seein a guy and before i told her this she sd she was gonna talk to him about us and now i'm afraid she won't do it and things will go unsaid between us. She's not picked up my calls from last night and just need some advice as to how to fix it all...
2007-01-26 21:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by Lea 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was in a relationship with a man when my current girlfriend "hit" on me...I was very scared at the beginning not being sure if that was what I wanted but I followed my instincts and turned out well!!!Don't put any pressure on her in any way from now on cause she's very vulnerable right now.I know I was!My girlfriend after making the first move,simply threw the ball in my court and let me lead the game.We are 4 years together and she admitted to me that she was very insecure and afraid at the beginning cause she didn't want to scare me away....I think she did a good job...So,If that girl wants to be with you then she'll probably make her move as long as you don't push things....Hope everything turns out the way you want it!
2007-01-26 22:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Marianna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being told your loved in any relationship, straight, bi or gay can scare a person. If she's not picking up the phone, can you email her? Let her know you didn't mean to scare her off and that seeing her happy is what is most important. Given time and space she made decide she loves you to. Good Luck
2007-01-27 06:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should see how long it'll take her to contact you, don't call her or nothing. You can't force someone to be with you who don't want to be in a relationship with you.
2007-01-27 05:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has been proven in numerous studies that "bisexuals" are notoriously up themselves and very selfish and inconsiderate id say good riddance to bad rubbish
2007-01-27 05:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by mr_soapytitwank 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lsn you did wat you had to do which is to tell her wat were ur true feelings towards her but now its her turn to say yes or no.
dont keep on calling her to know the ans because at the end she might hurt your feelings
take good care
mg.
2007-01-27 06:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋