is it really possible to be Bi sexual? Do bi sexuals have a little bit of a preference?

Question

do they lean a little more toward one sex ..?Like, do they say - "I love sex with guys- but I like it with girls a little bit more"?

I like looking at other women, and If the right woman aproached me, I might go out with her, but I don't know if I go so far as to say I'm bisexual- I love being with men, and I'd rather be in the company of men- I guess what I'm asking is:
Do bi sexuals Have a preference?

what is the kinsey scale?

Answer 1

Yes, it's definitely possible to be bisexual. Despite what many people say, bisexuality is a real, true, valid sexual orientation.

As for preferences, all bisexuals are different. Most, I think, do report having a preference for one sex over the other, although I know of a solid minority who feel they are equally split 50-50 in their desires. No matter the split, though, so long as there is a split, you are bisexual, whether it's 70-30, 60-40, or 99-1. I myself have a much stronger preference for men than women, but because I have some sexual attraction to women, and could be satisfied sexually with a woman, identify as bisexual.

Sounds like you are bisexual- remember, all bisexuality is is the capacity to have a sexually satisfying experience with both sexes. If you can do that, no matter the limitations of that ("Well, it'd have to be the right girl/guy", etc.), then you're bisexual.

The Kinsey Scale is a scale created by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey to evaluate sexuality on a gradient that went from 0 (completely straight) to 6 (completely gay). Most of us, it would seem, are somewhere between that, even though we don't necessarily identify as bisexual or consider same-sex (or opposite sex, depending on the case) relations to be that attractive.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

I think the thing about being bi is that you are aware and attracted to the inner soul, rather than its casing. I've often found myself perving on women and I'll always comment on an attractive woman before a gorgeous guy. However I've never had an experience with a woman. I wish I had, but now I'm in a 14 year relationship with a guy and we have 3 kids ...

Answer 3

Sure. Plenty do. I have never encountered perfect evidence of a "true", perfectly bisexual individual, but it's not an impossible concept. However, I would hazard to say, though I have no statistics to back me up or anything, that most bisexuals probably lean one way or another. Really, "bisexual" is probably just best reserved as a word for those whose preferences are such that they would entertain the idea of a same-gender encounter at least an appreciable minority of the time.

Answer 4

Yes and Yes, Preferences are your likes and dislikes...not your orientation.

Yes, as a bisexual I rate between a 4 and 5 on the Kinsey scale.

We're not trying to be trendy, we're not indecisive, we're not greedy.
Most bisexuals are in fact monogamous to their partners, whatever gender those partners may be.

I've been with my partner for over ten years, we're both females. I've had emotionally fulfilling relationships with both genders, but more so with women.
I am NOT poly amorous, although I have nothing against those who are...lucky them.

Answer 5

It sure is! I am one. I prefer to love the PERSON that I am with, not the sex. Right now I would say I prefer women because my current partner is a women. But, I have been married to a guy and while it worked, I preferred him. I guess I see good/ bad points in both.

Answer 6

I know that I lean towards women. That's a preference. I think that it comes natural. I get approached by both men and women. I guess that is natural for me.

You know what the funny thing is? I might be attracted to a guy, but I am disgusted with myself for it. I hate it, especially if it turns into something.

On the side of women, I typically atract the ones that I am not attracted to. I might have sex with them just to have sex with a woman.

My wiring must be off! lol

Answer 7

there's a distinction between sexual selection and sexual orientation. i might say selection is a decision. which includes Bisexuals. Being bisexual is an orientation. yet fairly they be with a female or male is a decision. Orientation is the way you're, the way you're born. it is your sexuality.

Answer 8

I do think being bi does has a preference but still choose to be with whom they want to be with. You can still lust for one but love the other one. I think so.

Answer 9

nah i think that bi people prefer one gender over another but they consider themselves bisexual because they also seek relationships with their own gender.