Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2006

as in there being different reasons for homosexuality,,with no one reason in the greater majority,,,please explian your beleif and if you want tell me your curreent sexual preference,,and the history behind it,,,,,i'm heterosexual,,,I just curious as to what people will say here

2006-10-21 03:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by betty 1

I am not sure if I am, but I want to know how other people have done it. I need info...Do bi's also 'come out' or do they hide mostly? If I am interested in girls, I am not attracted to the typical looks girls have, it's more the butch look/or at least short hair. I have long hair. Do most lesbian cut their hair to 'come out'? Do you have to dress any differently? I mean, I am aware of some young lesbians' garbs with piercings and all (which I find to an extent attractive). But I am not that brave!!! I think they're brave to be able to proclaim to the world they are. I come from a very conservative (no-forgiving) family who will NEVER understand if I ever did decide I want to pursue this discovery. I want to conform to society, yet I don't in a way (if it means not being true to myself). But all in all, I want to find a safe place where I can be myself and be safe, but not necessarily confined to a region. I just want to have the right balance in expressing this sexuality.

2006-10-21 03:25:24 · 10 answers · asked by summation 2

i'm a guy but the other night i went out as a girl for the first time. it was wonderful. for the first time i saw a guy i was really attracted to. i know i couldn't go out with him but the thought of it was wonderful. do ya think i might like guys.

2006-10-21 02:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by ashley 1

my ex partner is a pre op transsexual
something i have gotten used to
but we had a fight as people do
but i asked her did she truelly love me
and i did not get an answer
i asked her if she still has feelings for the girl
that broke her heart and she said yes
i packed my things and left
i knew i could not compete againt this girl in her heart
but i only wanted to get in side it and be loved a little bit
i don't think i can find any one that could replace her
and her understanding about me
i know she uses this site but i do not care
if she knows how i feel
i need to work out weather it is worth getting back with her
or what i should do to get over her
and move on and stop this hurt?
life seems to be standing still with out her
how do i make it start again

2006-10-21 02:23:21 · 10 answers · asked by eat it then die 2

My opinion and beliefs are from experience with dating men/boys. I keep thinking that no matter how good he may seem on the outside, when it comes down to it, he is an untrustworthy potential cheater. I believe men have a hard time controlling their sexual urge and even if they do,they feel hatred for women who dress provacatively (even though it's his darn fault he can't find peace within himself) and call them whores. I believe men fantasize about women in a violent way-wanting to violently have sex and act out aggression, which to me is vilely repulsive. I believe men are too brutes for any real sensitive enjoyment of people's company. They do not keen interest or passion about the arts, but will watch football and scream and holler. To me, unless men are androgynous (having female and male qualities), they are brutes. i hate muscular, big men. All it indicates to me is: AGGRESSION, potential beater. I love intellectuals, but men seem cold when they are. I don't know... !!

2006-10-21 02:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by summation 2

I am confused about it myself, so I hope I can be clear enough here... the other day I was in a public location and i noticed who I thought was a lesbian and I felt her energy and I liked her calm, smart, intuitive style. I was immediately drawn to her, but I was not obviously making eye contact and I did not even talk to her. It was just a vibe or "air" or profile I saw of her and that was it. But it was so powerful a feeling without negative thoughts, as I usually have of men (I do not trust them- stereotyped imprint in my head). I thought about the possibility of ever having any relationship with her and that I would enjoy it. I have no previous experience with girls or anything close.

But all I know is that I hate men (usually). It is not the physical unattraction or being turned off. It's what I have come to believe men to be untrustworthy. I have not met many men my age (+ 20 years) I can say, "I can trust him". I trust old grandpas, but even them I do not trust...

2006-10-21 01:54:55 · 20 answers · asked by summation 2

people say george is cute but Francis Kes is the sexiest man ever

2006-10-21 01:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it bother you that bisexual woman and str8-up lesbians are given a free pass, while gay and bisexual men are ostrosiced and thought of disparagingly?

I work in a nightclub with a bisexual female bouncer who openly flaunts her sexuality. She is cool, everybody likes her, but if she was a dude-things would be quite different.

Why do people in America treat Gay and Bisexual men and boys so differently from Bisexual and Gay women and girls?

2006-10-21 01:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im staying at my aunties house. daily at noon im alone at home. daily i crossdress. i am wearing my aunties sarees blouse bangles even bra and nicker also. daily im doing that. now i have dream to show my dressing to aunty. how to express this feelings?

2006-10-21 01:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by meena 1

I've been always "straight". Dating, and getting it with women. But I felt I had some type of attraction towards men too since I started reliazing what sex is. Nevertheless, I never acted upon it, and ignored it for a long time, supressed it . Now when I came to college, got more involved with male friends, and even saw them undressed, and more importantly had a larger community than school,my hormones began to do their work. And now I find myself so much attracted and curious for a relationship with another guy. I'm confused, although I liked the company of women, but it seems to me that "I had my share of it", and wanna go for it with a guy. Have I been through 7-8 years bi and supressing my attraction to men, or was I gay but "going with the flow"? And should I now start dating men and forget females? Guide me please to the first steps in this, I'm somewhat "Old-New" at this!

2006-10-21 01:29:40 · 12 answers · asked by Jim W 1

i have searched and searched. i remeber when i was in high school they were just starting to look for one. i've found articles on animals and insects having a gay gene, but nothing with solid proof of a human gay gene.

am i not looking in the right places or doing the right searches? i would love to have a reference for solid proof for people who use similar questions as a form of gay bashing, but as of yet the best i can find is fruit flies.

and i want it to be indisputable, so something in a scientific journal or the likes. no conservatist, religious, or gay publications unless the cite a reputable scientific sorce. i'm not trying to be nasty, i'm trying to make it indusputable.

2006-10-21 00:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Jenessa 5

How do you get adorned ?

2006-10-21 00:39:44 · 5 answers · asked by diveraustria 1

Where can a man wear rings and what kind look good?

2006-10-21 00:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by diveraustria 1

2006-10-20 23:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a gay virign. i have been going out with this guy for a year now and well he says if i dont sleep with him he is going to leave me. should i let him take my virginity or should i wait? should i go all the way or should i just perform oral? what if he has an STD?

2006-10-20 23:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by 1q2w3e 1

what do you do to fall asleep im so tired right now that my eyes are starting to hurt but i have been up and out of bed 4x's tonight its 4am and i have to work at 8 what can i do???

2006-10-20 22:56:48 · 14 answers · asked by brandy t 3

2006-10-20 22:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by brandy t 3

I was chatting to a gay person and when I asked them how they knew they were gay they said they always sort of knew and that they thought it was genetic. If so, i asked, how do you explain bisexuality and is being gay not just a lifestyle choice? What do you think?

2006-10-20 22:22:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 2 years ago I had short fling with a woman who was a veeery long time in a relationship and was cheated by her partner. It ended that they got back together and I was really hurt.
Now they split up and she starts coming on to me again. To be honest there are still feelings, but beeing dumped once, resulted in a lack of trust. What should I do?

2006-10-20 20:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by Starlight 4

I KNOW THEY are watching me I DON'T CARE what is so offensive about this question,,,,and also,,whem somebody says homosexuality is a choice ,,why do people say that then logically that heterosexuality is a choice,also,,,that doesn't make sense ,,heterosexuality is a natural lawfor reproduction,,you can't choose that biologically ,,,homosexuality is a sexual behavior like,,oral sex,,,,,,one chooses to drink alcohol and become addicted,,,the accohol doesn't choose them,,,,you can't make a choice to be heterosexual,,but being homosexual is always a choice even if it is sub-conscious to some degree,,,I don't belive there is anything wrong with homosexual behavior,,I just believe that it is no way biologically programmed,,,it is total preference of pleasure,,,mainly due to anxiety and fear of heterosexual relations for a number of different reasons,,,what do you think be kind and respectful,,,,let the hate mail begin,,,tell me your mind,,please don't report me,,,that is so craven

2006-10-20 20:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by betty 1

Things will have to soon change otherwise ppl in droves are going to leave for more happening sites.

2006-10-20 17:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by steveshoardhouse 3

Ok, well, I came out to my parents last weekend, and my Mom was like, "Ok." I asked her what she meant, and she told me that she had suspected for quite some time, especially when I didn't date in high school. (Small community, not many "out" people)

When I told my Dad, he didn't really say much. After a couple minutes of awkward silence, he said "Ok." Later, my Mom said he told her that he was disappointed in me. I decided to test the water a little by telling him that he could tell people (specifically his side of the family) and he changed the subject on me!!!

I figured it could be shock, but my Mom said that he wouldn't talk too much about it; other than to ask her how she felt about it, and whether or not she knew. He asked her if she was going to tell anyone, and my Mom said she would. After talking with my Mom again since, she said he hasn't really discussed it with her even though she tries to get him to talk with her.

Do you guys have any idea what I should do next?

2006-10-20 17:36:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a girl and i love men, but for some reason i fantasise (sp) about gay men, is it just like men who go crazy with lesbians, or am i just weird? Maybe i was gay in a past life...i dont know...!?

2006-10-20 17:25:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well after being married for 7 years and having 4 kids I just don't know what to think. I think it's just ceriosity but it happens way too often in my opinion cuz it doesen't matter where I am or what I'm doing I get feeling really weird when I have the slightest thought of being with the same sex. please help me to understand myself!! any answer is better than mine (I just don't know!!)

2006-10-20 17:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by till.tomorrow 1

I'm bi, and befriend well with some female also. I'm currently in relationship with a caring and loving guy... so I tell her that I'm not interested. Still, she doesn't seem to give up easily and still wants me.... Tell me, what should I do then? Should I tell my bf? I don't want to ruin all my relationship here, so help me, please?

2006-10-20 16:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 16:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by artistray 1

Assuming that homosexuals are born that way (which I believe), would you be offended by the idea that it is a genetic flaw? What if it was scientificly found to be a genetic disorder? I'm asking in light of a conversation I had with a gay friend (he brought up the theory, not I). Just curious as to what the larger community had to say.

2006-10-20 16:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by Conniebug 3

please no ignorant responses

2006-10-20 16:04:27 · 30 answers · asked by justine 2

I want to share this with you all because I don't have anything against Gay Folks, I think we are all the same and if we can laugh and enjoy life then it's all good. Please let me know what you think and how you feel about my joke, Thanks.

An old cowboy sat down at the Star bucks and ordered a cup of coffee.
As he sat sipping his coffee, a young woman sat down next to him.
She turned to the cowboy and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?"
He replied, "Well, I've spent my whole life breaking colts, working cows,
going to rodeos, fixing fences, pulling calves, bailing hay, doctoring
calves, cleaning my barn, fixing flats, working on tractors, and feeding
my dogs, so I guess I am a cowboy."

She said, "I'm a lesbian. I spend my whole day thinking about women. As
soon as I get up in the morning, I think about women. When I shower, I
think about women. When I watch TV, I think about women. I even think
about women when I eat. It seems that everything makes me think of
women."

The two sat sipping in silence.
A little while later, a man sat down on the other side of the old cowboy
and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?! "
He replied, "I always thought I was, but I just found out that I'm a
lesbian."

2006-10-20 15:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by basscatcher 4

2006-10-20 15:43:27 · 16 answers · asked by Dr Know It All 5