My opinion and beliefs are from experience with dating men/boys. I keep thinking that no matter how good he may seem on the outside, when it comes down to it, he is an untrustworthy potential cheater. I believe men have a hard time controlling their sexual urge and even if they do,they feel hatred for women who dress provacatively (even though it's his darn fault he can't find peace within himself) and call them whores. I believe men fantasize about women in a violent way-wanting to violently have sex and act out aggression, which to me is vilely repulsive. I believe men are too brutes for any real sensitive enjoyment of people's company. They do not keen interest or passion about the arts, but will watch football and scream and holler. To me, unless men are androgynous (having female and male qualities), they are brutes. i hate muscular, big men. All it indicates to me is: AGGRESSION, potential beater. I love intellectuals, but men seem cold when they are. I don't know... !!
2006-10-21 02:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by summation 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you have issues with men in general, and should maybe see a psychologist. I'm a lesbian, and I don't hate men. I know many lesbians who don't hate men. That is a stereotype. Seek therapy, and talk it out with your doctor. Not online, though we are cheaper :P
Good luck!!
2006-10-21 04:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you harbor a hatred for men and stereotype them. There are a hey good straight men out there if ya just keep looking. If you're interested in women though, I guess you could give guys a break and try the other side. My best (male) friend was my rock when my parent's would let me transition from male to female. My (male) cousin was there for me more as a child than both of my parents were. There's some decent ones amongst the bad apples. Oh, and as many people that have played the lesbian dating game could attest to, there are bad apples amongst the ladies too.
2006-10-21 10:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a lesbian, all I can tell you is how I feel about men. I tried denying I was lesbian, played the game, dating a few, having very unsatisfying sex. Even their smell repulses me. Yet I have many male friends and I enjoy watching football, yelling at the tv and I have a very male oriented job driving truck. I tend to get along with men better than women. But as for lovers, no way. I met my mate 26 years ago and she satisfies me as no one else ever came close to. Humans come in all different shapes, sizes, genders and their attributes. Our upbringing can forge our levels of caring, intellect, interest and aggression. We have many generations of upbringing telling men they have to be STRONG. This is still fueled today by mothers and fathers all over the world. And generally, we still need strong men. There will be plenty of women who want these men, but it is not you. So you will search elsewhere for someone who fits next to you. Look for love and someday it will find you. Good luck.
2006-10-21 09:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what you just wrote here is a perfect example for a normal man.
You have to understand that men have quite a strong hormone. It's in our nature to like having sex. i can't change it, but that's the way life an nature is. Don't put it against us but that's how we were made. But an untrustworthy potential cheater? that's up to you to know if he really loves you. If someone broke your heart, don't take it against all men. Give us a chance. If you really don't like men with the description of what you wrote above, try looking for gays. I think he's a good guy for you, that is if he's into girls...
But what exactly was your question?
i hope you'll think different of us men.
2006-10-21 09:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating the wrong kind of men, honny! Although there are men in the world like that there are many that are good, kind, tender and liberal minded. If you are questioning your sexuality then don't base it off your dislike of men you have dated in the past. You will only hurt yourself more in the long run. Do you connect more with women? Are you attracted to them? If so, then you may be bi or a lesbian. If not, then start looking for a different type of guy and ditch the losers.
Good luck, hon!
2006-10-21 09:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Redd Morgan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known some dreadful people, men and women. My late partner's family were prime examples.My brother on the other hand is a good, decent person. Good natured, caring, married with 3 children, he still found time to help me in my time of crisis. Without his help, I doubt I would be alive today. Perhaps I am just fortunate in our upbringing.
Kind regards, Rose P.
2006-10-22 03:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very last sentence sums up everything you wrote: "I don't know...!!!"
Interesting that you believe you can apply your opinions to every man on this Earth. Interesting indeed that you believe men are an "untrusworthy potential cheater". Tell that to my friend who's wife I caught playing around with another friend of mine, but to YOU women NEVER cheat.
You're entitled to your opinion, but seems like you need more definition in your thoughts. Angry, soooo angry.
2006-10-21 09:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think differently from women, doesnt make them "bad", just...different...i, myself, hate most men, and the ones that i dont hate, i just dont want to sleep w/...lol...i dont even know where im going here, i just wanted to say that men, quite simply, do not think like a woman does.
2006-10-21 11:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by QueenOfTheDamned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have some issues about men to talk over with a psychiatrist. hating men and being a lesbian are not one and the same....
2006-10-21 09:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to understand men, but start trying to understand Jesus who died on the cross for you to give you eternal life. Take ur focus off of men, but put ur focus on the afterlife: Heaven or Hell.
2006-10-21 09:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋