Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2006

The prologue: OK, we have many people coming here and asking or debating on whether we are born gay or we made a choice.
Not all of them are bigots, some people didnt have the opportunity to ask someone or get educated. And most of them back their comments (of it being a choice) using the "researches" of psychologists and scientists.
The question: Isn't it obvious that these "psychologists" have their own agendas? I mean, when you start a research it is going to head one way if you are biased in the first place. I am pretty sure that they start their research thinking: "OK, I think it is a choice so I will try to prove it". And obviously you can interpret the results according to your opinion and not the facts. I am sure that they dont start with the "lets see what makes someone gay" mentality.
What do you think?

2006-10-20 15:24:02 · 22 answers · asked by Nostromo 5

do you believe that if gay people are born gay, then theres a chance pediphils are also born pediphils? the only reason why im comparing pediphils with homosexuals, is because they both have different sexual desires than the common hetrosexual. if someone has a desire to have sex with children, he's still considered a pediphil, even if he didnt commit a crime. im also not saying being gay is wrong, because theres nothing wrong with 2 willing adults having sex. if you think scientists can prove that gay people are born gay, then couldnt they also prove that pediphils are also born pediphils?

2006-10-20 14:56:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 14:32:42 · 17 answers · asked by TRACER 1

ok, i am 14 and a guy and i think i am gay or bi.... not sure, but i hate it, i dont want to be this way but i still fall for guys. well i am tired of falling for guys who don't fall back, and i thought the were gay....but they weren't... i try so hard to just accept myself but i can't. my question is why do gays say they are happy that way when it just causes pain...

2006-10-20 14:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by suck my n 1

just wondering. my friend did and he's not gay but he said he got an erection over looking at another guy. have you before and if you have... are you gay?

2006-10-20 14:10:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im trying to settle an issue with boyfriend who thinks it is very uncommen, but I say it is!

2006-10-20 13:44:00 · 12 answers · asked by hollygirl732001 2

This is a serious question .... but it seems like everytime I make out with someone new, I pretty much always end up getting sick the next morning. ... like I wake up with a cold and runny nose..and sore throat why is that??

2006-10-20 12:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by Mj 4

2006-10-20 12:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by Redawg J 4

2006-10-20 12:01:00 · 16 answers · asked by TRACER 1

They aint in it - you dont need them once your an adult.

2006-10-20 11:59:24 · 14 answers · asked by Reddcap666 1

I have nothing against homosexuality or those who partake in such behavior. However, I wonder why so many gays/lesbians have to be so "in your face" about it. I don't care if you are gay, so why do you feel so inclined to tell me about it?

2006-10-20 11:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by Fortiter Et Recte 2

2006-10-20 11:46:27 · 25 answers · asked by crazybrunette1991 2

For two years, I have pondered on my sexuality. I have tried to tell myself that I was straight. But a few weeks ago I accepted the fact that I like both boys and girls. I like girls more than guys, however I am still attracted to ONE boy at my school and a lot of girls. A week ago, I told my mom and sister that, and they are okay. At first my mom thought I was joking. And I think she still does. On MySpace I put that I was bi so my friends who saw it know and they are okay.
And.... my grandma and other people do not know. I have never had a girlfriend before.... just one boyfriend for like one day a few years ago... ( and my fam does not know about the bf ). BUT when I do get a girlfriend, I am scared of what my grandma and others will do.

2006-10-20 11:39:11 · 29 answers · asked by Sarah* 7

2006-10-20 11:38:39 · 17 answers · asked by TRACER 1

I'm m to f transsexual. I perceive myself to be a lesbian. I'm in love with my best friend. She's a lesbian, also. But she's in a committed relationship, right now. I don't want to try and come between them. So how many drinks should I have? And what kind?

2006-10-20 11:25:54 · 19 answers · asked by kendra bryn 3

Ok Im a 15 yr old guy. I find man physically attractive you know but with girls I dont but if I know a girl and I like her personality and I feel butterflys in my stomach. So am I bi or not?

2006-10-20 11:12:53 · 22 answers · asked by Unknown 1

I caught my boyfriend looking at transexual porn and somehow I became attracted to transexuals, so much I am actually considering meeting one. but I feel guilty because its not right and I scorned my boyfriend for looking at that trash, and he does not know I am looking myself and I dont want him to find out. I dont know if I am sick in the head

2006-10-20 11:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by summer 1

2006-10-20 10:49:07 · 25 answers · asked by st.uncumber 5

Ok.. Now...before I go any further I want to make sure it's understood. I love my daughter NO MATTER what her decision is.

The question and search for advice I have is.. My daughter (14yo) has voiced that she might be more interested in girls than boys. As long as she has love in her life Yippee for her!!! However, I'm now leary to allow her to spend the night at her friends houses because I don't want her to get sexually active too soon. Am I being a bad parent?

I love her and want her to have a social life in highschool.. but what am I to do?

HELP!!

2006-10-20 10:34:39 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that i would most definently attend- there are a few people i really want to meet in person.

ps. maybe only applies to those in the UK...lol

2006-10-20 10:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do?

2006-10-20 10:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by kairi fanboy 1

I'm a lesbian, and I know in my heart that God made me a lesbian. I have asked many questions regarding this idea and I get mixed results. So I thought I'd ask you all. To me, choosing to be gay makes absolutely no sense at all. How could you choose that? But, I'm asking you. Do you believe you were born gay or you chose to be that way?

2006-10-20 08:45:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoevXNW1nAd2qHMOoqLjJxbg5gt.?qid=20061020082428AAHP4ER

2006-10-20 08:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by st.uncumber 5

2006-10-20 08:26:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its not the fact that i will be hated or ridiculed its the fact that most people well not all girls they seem cool with you but its like your not a person anymore your "THAT GAY GUY". Its like people dont even see you for being you anymore everytime they see you your "That gay guy" you cant even touch a dude without him thinking you like him or you always have people stepping on egg shellls because youra "homo". I meen im not ashamed of being bi seual i like P***y and D**K cant help it but I just dont want people to just judge me by my label. And i dont want to put my friends through the torment i dont care about getting teased but i dont want to set my friends up for it. How do you guys feel whats some advice did you feel the same way when you came out. And do you think its totally wrong if i never come out the closet lol.

2006-10-20 08:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 08:10:01 · 19 answers · asked by Sponge82 1

OI DONT JUDGE ME BY THIS BUT IM JUST ASKING!supposed u take an average guy who likes girls(dat wud b obvious.hes avg)and he finds pleasure at not only mastrubating but also in sucking his penis.how would u define him?gay?or sumtin else?im confused cuz if he likes girls how can u call him gay?i dont know any1 who has done it and definetly not me.im just asking cuz sum guys in ma class were having an argument,and the one guy said go suck ur own cock u homo(he said mastrubator and sum other stuff but i cant type it all here.he said a lot of bullshit).i know this is sick to ppl but my curiosity got the better off me.PEASE GIVE SOME SENSIBLE ANSWERS!!!!thnx.

2006-10-20 08:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yahoo is taking action (finally) on all these abusive questions and bashings. So have you started to see a change lately.

2006-10-20 08:02:04 · 24 answers · asked by dragon 5

2006-10-20 07:42:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a guy that wishes so to be a girl. i'm so feminine and luv it. i'm so much a girl when i'm at home and the other night i finally went out as a girl! it was the most beautiful night ever :) how do i tell everyone that i truly am a girl?

2006-10-20 07:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 1