Ok Im a 15 yr old guy. I find man physically attractive you know but with girls I dont but if I know a girl and I like her personality and I feel butterflys in my stomach. So am I bi or not?
2006-10-20 11:12:53 · 22 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Probably gay or bi.
However men can view men as physically attractive, and want to emulate them and not be gay.
Guys sometimes get weirded when trying to connect to women as they fear the rejection, especially sexually it is easier for a guy to just engage physically with another male than with a female as the rejection is greater and more painful to the self -esteem.
Feeling butterflies does not always mean a physical attraction or wanting.
You are still young, give yourself time to date and build your personality before making a call on your sexuality, either way be happy with you.
2006-10-20 11:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Wheels 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear young man, stop worrying about whether you are or not. Give your head some time to catch up with your hormones. Some of us don't "get it" as early as others. I just answered the same kind of question with a 13 yr old girl. Same kind of answer--- enjoy the friends you make, whether they're guys or girls. If you realize you can enjoy the emotional relationships with both, then you're bi. If you find that you are really only comfortable emotionally with other guys, you're gay. And just because you might get nervous around girls, doesn't mean you're gay.
Enjoy yur life now. Don't worry so much about it. Have a good time while you are young. Protect your heart. Protect yourself from stds (of course). Check out organizations that are gay friendly and see if you are comfortable. In the mean time, see how you feel about the ladies. It's always good to have friends.
2006-10-20 11:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That'a a stereotype, i'm bi yet i could by no skill date a woman and a guy on a similar time,no longer despite the fact that in the event that they have been cool with it reason interior the top somebody or all people gets injury(all those thoughts,one dating is complicated adequate you do no longer did greater chaos by way of attempting to juggle 2 or combining them into one),ya know i think of it extremely is like cheating,that's incorrect. So, yeah i could date a bisexual, i does no longer get jealous much less complicated reason the guy i'm going with could be somebody i no i will have faith.
2016-11-24 20:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to hear is that sexual confusion is a normal part of growing up. You haven't fully developed yet. Same-sex attraction and even same-sex experimentation is something that happens quite often with people your age, and the overwhelming majority still end up straight. Why put a label on yourself now? Wait til you are fully grown, meet the person of your dreams, and decide this is the person you want to spend your life with. Then, look in their eyes, and if they are male, you are gay. If they are female, you are straight. But either way, heck, you've met the person of your dreams so it is all good! It's normal to question things right now, but just remember you don't have to answer those questions until you've had time to make up your mind. Just be careful, be safe, and be good to yourself as you go through your journey.
2006-10-20 15:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mark L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have and continue to have erotic fantasies about men as well as women, are attracted to both sexes (at some level) and are aroused by both, I would say that you might be bisexual. You don't sound gay to me at all.
One thing: It is one thing to say you find men physically attractive. All men do this, especially if they admire someone or want to compare themselves to another man. It is quite another to admit to yourself that you fantasize about and are sexually aroused by men.
Give yourself a few years before you self-label. You'll know for sure in time.
I hope this helps you. Adolescence can be a difficult time, especially for boys.
P.S. Lots of men are bisexual. You would never know most of these guys are not straight, however. Many live in the straight world and do not stray from their marriages to women. Others do, however.
2006-10-21 06:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you find men physically attractive doesn't mean you are bi, I think it means you are secure with your sexuality that you can give another man a compliment, But on the other hand if you are lusting or fantasizing a men
2006-10-20 11:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through this same situation with my daughter, and my thoughts are......
Give it time you'll decide what works best for you. Be sure to check in to the different avenues of STD's and such that involves sex activities with either partner.
I'm trying to give it time with her to decide what is best for her with out pressuring things one way or another, because no matter what she's my baby girl and I will love her till the day I die and probably longer. I can only hope you have some one that you can talk to about it and have supportive parents that will support you in what ever your decision is when you get older.
Much love and luck on your quest
2006-10-20 11:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to men and women, then you're bisexual. You're 15, so you might want to wait until you're older to officially "come out", but you sound like you might be a "4" or "5" on the Kinsey scale of sexuality.
2006-10-20 11:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by lalasnake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother asking yourself the question. It's not important, it'll just be a part of who you are. As you get older, go out there and enjoy yourself, whether it's with a man or a woman - so be it.
Eventually, there won't be any need for you to ask this question; you'll know. Just give it time.
2006-10-20 11:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you're not.
You just admire man physically coz you want to have the same body and strength as them. Go to gym, do sports and build your body. You will have confidence on yourself in approaching girls.
2006-10-20 15:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by coolio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋