my ex partner is a pre op transsexual
something i have gotten used to
but we had a fight as people do
but i asked her did she truelly love me
and i did not get an answer
i asked her if she still has feelings for the girl
that broke her heart and she said yes
i packed my things and left
i knew i could not compete againt this girl in her heart
but i only wanted to get in side it and be loved a little bit
i don't think i can find any one that could replace her
and her understanding about me
i know she uses this site but i do not care
if she knows how i feel
i need to work out weather it is worth getting back with her
or what i should do to get over her
and move on and stop this hurt?
life seems to be standing still with out her
how do i make it start again
2006-10-21 02:23:21 · 10 answers · asked by eat it then die 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
betitodetroit i think your right
i don't need her
she a good person
but i need somebody to love me back
zara please don't take ofence by this
but i need more time to work everything out you know i will never look at you the same way again but i like being around
i just don't think i can be just a friend so for the moment i am going to stay to my self
2006-10-21 02:50:01 · update #1
..DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont go back there!!!! There is nothing to talk about!!!!
Have some self respect man!!!!!
There is nothing left to say!!
This fool "likes" you, but doesnt want to be with you, dont do it!!!!
dont do it!!!! dont do it!!!!!
Don't let yourself be hurt again!!!!!
DONT DO IT!!!!!!
DONT Answer your phone!!!!!
DONT GO TALK TO THEM!!!!!!
SAVE YOURSELF THE HEARTACHE!!!!!
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DUDE THERE WAS A GIRL THAT WANTED TO BE WITH ME IN THE WORST WAY BEFORE DURING AND AFTER MY DIVORCE, I TALKED TO HER, BUT I KNEW I NEVER, NEVER NEVER WANTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GIRL, AND YET SHE CONTINUED, AND I DOGGED HER CONSTANTLY
MAN/WOMAN OR WHATEVER ITS THE SAME DYNAMIC....I JUST DONT LIKE THAT BROAD AS MY GIRLFRIEND, THIS FOOL FEELS THE SAME....DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 02:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she didn't answer you, she was probably holding back an answer you didn't want to hear. You can't make someone love you. They either do or they don't. If she has feelings for someone else, that only makes it more difficult. You need to let go of her. There is someone out there better than this girl...someone who is going to make you feel special...someone who is going to remind you constantly that they are in love with you.... Don't waste your time on this other girl. I was in the same situation with my partner. When I learned to let go, that was when I was truely happy. Sure it will hurt you some, but you should find a replacement for her. I'm sure there's someone out there that is more compatible, even though you may not see it right now.
2006-10-21 05:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep yearning for whats not possible. Carry on with your life and behave as if nothings happened.
You will soon get over it. No point in sticking to a person who does'nt reciprocate in a similar manner.
One sided passion is bound to be taken advantage of by your other partner, which she could sexploit 2 make u dance 2 her tunes.
Be strong emotionaly and show her that you can move on with your life regardless of set backs in personal relationship.
You must show her that you have truly cut yourself off from the past. World's a big place god willing you will find someone who genuinely cares for you and also very sensitive to your emotions.
2006-10-21 06:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by zenith i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is how youll move on and stop the hurt.
and this may sound harsh as hell but it helps moving all reminders of her from your life. its like trying to stop smoking but still having ash trays and lighters around. any pictures, pack them up, dont answer phone calls, emails nothing. when you feel ready to talk to her again then by all means thats the thing to do. but for now, give yourself some you time. to tend to your needs.
its not going to stop hurting over night and it just might even get worse but eventually youll move on. if you get back with her, good luck but i wouldnt recommend being with someone that is still in love with someone else.
2006-10-21 05:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by justine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If posting the question here helps you to sort this out, I hope it helps. But this can only be answered between you and your heart. Where your heart leads, you will follow.
2006-10-21 02:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
cheyne
you do know it is true
i do love some body else
and i to know i can not be with them
but no matter what i do like you so much
i love spending time with you
and i am sorry if i broke your heart
you are a good person
and a very loveing one at that
i am inviting you to come over and we can talk about all off this
i am going away tomorrow but i woulld like you to come
i know you and
i know for you to admit you upset means
you do very bad things
please come to my house or answer your phone
so we can talk
i am not sayiing we should get back together
but come over and we can take it from there
2006-10-21 02:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
she either loves you or she does not...trying to make someone love you is never worth the effort.
2006-10-21 02:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can't make someone feel anything, love is action not words, you can tell by her actions...............sounds like your in the first stage of the grieving process (denial)
2006-10-21 02:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's up to u
2006-10-21 02:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's dead it's dead, move on.
2006-10-21 02:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by now_by1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋