Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - September 2006

That is what I was told last Saturday... I was not acting any different than I usually do around my friends and family... They all act the same to... But Saturday, when I was hanging out with new people I was called homophobic! How can I be homophobic?! I am gay (I am the only one that knows that though)!

2006-09-12 15:05:57 · 38 answers · asked by liam_maccarthaigh 1

If I lied and you didn't think it was right would you hate me? If I stole something and you thought it was wrong would you hate me? If I drank too much would you hate me? If I lusted after another woman would you hate me? If I gambled my money away would you hate me?
For all of these you probably wouldn't hate me but you might not agree with what I did. I wouldn't call you a hater but would realize that you didn't agree with what I did.
So if I don't agree with someone having sexual relations with someone of the same sex, then why am I called a "hater"?

2006-09-12 14:44:20 · 26 answers · asked by waiting4u2believe 2

2006-09-12 14:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by happyhead7 1

2006-09-12 14:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by jered 3

Me myself cant,I feel that NO1 can judge u but 1 person an we ALL will have 2 c him someday.So y Judge at all?....

2006-09-12 13:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by sophatup 2

2006-09-12 13:22:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

week:"So i went to my mandarin class which is an advanced conversational class..this morning and sat in class for 4 hours and couldn't understand anything. My mandarin teacher speaks very little english and I was lost..It was like I was listening to a language that I had never heard before;;I've been studying mandarin for years....etc,etc,etc..Has this happen to anyone trying to learn a foreign language..It's like a part of my brain wouldn't turn on?"
I received this answer form IZZY..which I thought was so funny that I almost fell off my chair laughing "....I have an friend who grew up with his Russian Grandmother who spoke only Russian to him.Some years after she passed away, he went on a trip there, you know to connect with his roots,but no one could understand a thing that he was saying.Upon his return,troubled,his asked is Aunt:"was my Granny really Russian?" Yes, she was, but no one could understand her because she had no teeth!"

2006-09-12 13:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that lives really close by, the past year I have kind of been picking on him, because he is gay. I recently realised I have fallen in love with him! I hate myself now. How could I let myself fall in love?!

2006-09-12 13:09:40 · 34 answers · asked by alex_1989_lenier 1

There's been a number of studies on identical twins and if one is gay then the chances of the other being gay is around 50%. I know this is higher than the normal averages, but if the genes are responsible for homosexuality then it has to be 100% and nothing else. Don't these scientific studies show that homosexuality is due to a combination of genetics and responses to certain trigger events in their lives? So no one can really say they are "born" gay. They can only say that they have a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality. What do you think?

2006-09-12 12:57:52 · 24 answers · asked by Dr. D 7

hi, I'm a guy and my boyfriend left me, i knew since the beginning he was not totally gay, that he'd decided to stay with me just because we were good friends and i helped him a lot with his drug and alcohol addiction..I'm a Krishna ,I don't drink and I don't smoke and I inspired him to practice yoga and spirituality and he was making huge progress on his path....but he left me days ago..said he found a girl and he wanted to get married and have kids. It wrenched my heart but i let him go, with my heart painfully broken and because i knew his orientation and desires before. I love this guy, he's Russian and tough, and after God, he was the one who most gave me happiness in my life..we used to walk along the beach, late at night and i used to be with him when his impulses to drugs would make him get crazy...the thing is (and I didn't know that) is that this girl he's now hanging out with is much older and is a junkie, smokes pot and all the stuff and now he's doing all the same again...

2006-09-12 12:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2

2006-09-12 12:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by prepboy1 1

Recently I've notice that when people on Yahoo Answers in the GLBT ask or answers a question; and uses the word (term) G0YZ; a particular pack of wolves inundate them with hate messages; and or thumbs down (even unrelated questions)? Why can't we all get along and share our experience, regardless rather or not we agree? If we don't like the Christians bashing those in this group, why show hypocrisy by doing it to others? Isn’t it just obvious or micavillian?

2006-09-12 12:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by Swordfish 6

2006-09-12 12:07:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jadeis Wolf 1

I need some advice real bad...I have a secret that I have been keeping from my family for a long time now (although I'm only 18)...I am a lesbian. I don't know how to go about telling my mother without hurting her and going against her beliefs (she's christian). I am so confused...I don't know what to feel anymore, whether I should just forget about how I feel and not tell her anything so she won't be hurt by my secret, or if I should tell her and risk our close relationship (she's like my best friend!). I am so depressed and I just don't know what to do...I need help really bad :(

2006-09-12 12:00:44 · 24 answers · asked by Kathy 1

Hi all,

Here's my little problem. I don't look gay, I don't dress gay, and I don't talk gay. It's not very obvious to other people that I'm gay.

A friend of mine pointed out that it's going to be difficult to meet somebody this way. He's just not going to recognise that I'm gay.

What can I do to make other gay people know?

I don't want to make it all too obvious though. I have to wear a uniform to work, and it's a pretty conservative environment.

Thanks!

2006-09-12 11:27:26 · 15 answers · asked by Ti 3

I just want to know cause nobody in my family is gay and im not out yet. and which one the bests.

2006-09-12 11:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Unknown 1

I always wondered that...

2006-09-12 11:06:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know what city are gay friendly? Cause Im tire of living in Houston, TX. Even doe Im 15 years old I want to live someplace else so where could I?

2006-09-12 11:04:39 · 14 answers · asked by Unknown 1

Recently, I asked If I have any potential to make friends--and if I was atractive enough to jive the attention of others. I am not suprised with some the answers that I received. I never saw myself as totally hopeless, but someone did give me such an answer. My question about me, but that person...What does this person probably look like? I asked this question in the cultures and society section, the friends and also this category. Just wondering (thats all)

2006-09-12 10:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by josh_rittinger 2

I'm so scared what he might think of me afterwards I don't wan thim to be mad at me or look at me like i'm crazy. I lov ehim with all my heart and I know I have to tell him. But i'm afriad of what his reaction might be.

2006-09-12 10:12:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been invited to a Big Event in Hollywood. This event as I have been told should be filled with Big celebrity names. No the person who asked me won't tell me what it is. Just that both the event and after parties should be huge social events.

Ok, now I am a simple country cowboy. While I was raised in Southern California back in the 1970's, there was still country there and ranches. I also know things have changed a lot too.

I know my basic wrangler, roper shirts that I wear to rodeos won't cut it there for this event. I need something unique, or maybe even custom made. I have been asked to maintain my cowboy image and myself. Yet I also want to bend a little and fit in better. I think this would help the night go a lot better.

Anyone have any suggestions on some good custom clothing makers, or really hip online clothing stores where I can find something new, different, yet cowboy/western style? Something like Tim McGraw might wear? I have the body for it.

2006-09-12 09:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 09:53:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not a lesbian but I've been terribly hurt by a boy I adored. I can't fall in love with girls but I feel like a girl would give me emotional stability and something much closer to unconditional love than what I have experienced with men. However, I am fairly confused at this point. I am not attracted to girls but I think that on an emotional level she would make a great companion. When it comes to love making, I don't find it odd, it's kind of as if I made love to myself, so it's a turn on because seeing my body naked also turns me on - obviously.

I am confused though because it just seems odd. I can develop deep feelings of friendship for a girl but never the romance and passion. Only a man can give me that if he loves me.

So why am I then thinking about this?

Is it because I'm so depressed about what happened in the past with men?

Thanks.

2006-09-12 09:53:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were you scorned by a man? Do you feel you were born that way? Only intelligent responses, please.

2006-09-12 09:31:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

would the people who are against gay marriage (because marriage should be between man and women) be accepting and vote yes for Domestic Partnership (all the rights two people should have as a couple, reguardless of sex, but without it being called marriage) ???

Basically, this is all that is wanted... basic rights. The idea of marriage, at least in name, seems to be the thing people object to.

So... if we call it something differant, like Domestic Partnership, would that be good enough for the people that are threatened by gay marriage, to vote yes to give equal rights to all Americans?

And to the gay/lesbian folks, would calling it something different, but getting what you want, be acceptable?

*** Keep in mind domestic partnership is already an option for straight couples, who do not wish to be married, yet want all the rights and benifits of marriage, for whatever reason, such as the decision to take thier partner off of life support (Living Will) and inheritance

2006-09-12 09:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by C P R 3

How did you know you was bi and not a lesbian?did you decide to be bi after a threesome with hubby?

stories?

2006-09-12 08:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by seeking 4

i mean everyone theres no such thing as " i was born gay" lol .. they are just got issues ... they all need dr/phil

2006-09-12 08:43:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

expose the truth about 9-11 now, stop the lies, the gayness has to stop

2006-09-12 08:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by 20qworth 1

I am a sgwm 40yo and I live in Kansas City. I earn a decent salary just over $50k and I do ok. I have to save money to take vacations, and live on a budget. I am simple country/cowboy type guy not into all the thrills and frills of a material world.

I have recently met a very nice man. He’s Canadian and 34yo. He is very handsome and makes me laugh. He is a good hearted person. However we come from different ends of the track. His earnings are several times what I earn. He has 2 personal assistants, a driver here in town. He lives the high life of spas, personal trainers and such. He jets off for his work to any number of metro areas and meets people like Madonna after their concerts with back stage or private parties.

Now he and I really do get along well, and so far the money and lifestyle differences haven’t been a HUGE issue at least here in KC. However, the other day he hinted at flying off to LA for some big opening. Heck yeah I would like to go, but not on my budget. If he offered to pay for the flight, hotel and such, yeah I could go. However then my pride gets in the way. Plus there is cost of a clothing for this event. I was told wear my wranglers a cool western shirt and I would fit in. He told me to be myself, he likes me that way. That in itself was a relief.

Now comes my PRIDE. I have always paid my own way in this world. My bills are paid, and most everything I have is as well. How can this work? Anyone been in a similar situation have any advice?

2006-09-12 08:04:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-12 08:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sassy Tease-Sex With Sassy Radio 3